1. Does the woman have to mention the wedding when hosting a banquet alone?
In many places, there is actually a rule that women give a banquet first. First of all, in rural Chengdu, there is a dinner on the night before the wedding: it is called "Flower Night Dinner", and in some places it is called "Garden Party", which is a traditional custom.
However, due to the progress of society and the development of traffic, more girls have joined the ranks of far marriage, so this custom is no longer suitable for the development of real society. Now it is more popular for both men and women to hold banquets.
But some old men are very traditional and may get married twice, which is unacceptable. They think it's unlucky, but the woman's parents want her daughter to get married beautifully, and they want to hold a grand wedding for her daughter and entertain relatives at the same time. Because of the long marriage time, it is impossible for all relatives to go to the man's house, so there will be a situation where both sides can do it.
Second, the process of holding a wedding in the woman's home.
1, guests present
About half an hour before the wedding officially started, the guests arrived and were introduced to their seats by the best man. The seats in the church are generally divided into left and right rows. Traditionally, the first row of the left row is the woman's house, and her parents sit in the left row near the middle aisle, and her relatives and friends are in the back row in turn. The man's family and friends are in the right row.
2. Wedding admission
The host walked into the room. The officiant was the first to enter the venue and walked down the aisle to the center of the wedding table. The groomsman and bridesmaid enter. The best man and the maid of honor walked in pairs in the aisle of the wedding. The groomsman and bridesmaid are lined up on both sides of the wedding aisle, and the groomsman and bridesmaid stand closest to the wedding table.
The groom came in. The groom walked to the left of the wedding and stood facing the guests. The bride and father walked into the stadium. After the above-mentioned people stood up, the bride took her father's left arm and walked into the church with flowers in her hand.
3. Handover ceremony
The groom stepped down from the wedding table to meet the bride, and the bride took her father's arm and walked to the wedding table. The bride's father kissed her daughter and then gave the bride to the groom. The bride's father sat down, and the bride took the groom's left arm and walked onto the wedding platform together.
4, the woman should pay attention to the number of people attending the wedding banquet, according to the specific number of people to determine how many tables, if you add the man's relatives, you need to add the number of both sides together, otherwise the number of people attending the banquet will be biased.