Huimen has always been a traditional custom in China, which has been passed down to this day. After the formal wedding ceremony, the groom must accompany the bride and visit her parents and relatives. These are all exquisite. Let me give you a brief introduction.
Huimen is also called "mothering". Simply put, the bride and groom go back to their parents' home. This is a traditional custom handed down to this day. Generally speaking, there is no uniform date for returning to the door. In different areas, there will be different customs to decide. Therefore, the date of the return visit will be different. Generally speaking, the third day, the sixth day, the eighth day and the ninth day after the big wedding are all suitable days. Of course, there will be exceptions. In some places, the day of returning to the door is the day of full moon. However, in most places, the couple will go home on the third day after the wedding, which is also called "Huisan". It also needs to be decided according to local customs. Young people who don't understand can also ask their parents or elders of the older generation for advice.
After the date of returning to China is determined, the groom needs to be fully prepared, not only for returning to China, but also psychologically, because this will directly affect the bride's parents and relatives' views on the groom. Before returning to the door, we must make full preparations for the whole process of returning to the door and some necessary etiquette. It is also important to have clothes for repeat customers. Be sure to choose a decent suit, and accessories can be decorated appropriately. And be sure to bring some suitable gifts to express your respect and gratitude to the bride's parents and relatives.
The above has been explained in detail for everyone. And some things that deserve special attention when returning to the door. In fact, if you new people don't understand or don't know much about anything before returning to China, you can ask your elders at home, and they will definitely answer every detail, so that you can return to China happily while observing the etiquette.