First, who should I ask to help me collect red envelopes at the wedding:
1, bridesmaid
Most of the gifts are kept by the newlyweds themselves, and the man will give the money to the woman for safekeeping, so the woman can ask someone she can trust to collect them. Most bridesmaids are bridesmaids, so the bride can ask the bridesmaids to collect the gift money, so as to ensure that the gift money will finally be handed over to the bride.
2. Best man
If the gift money is for the man, then the best man can accept it. It's the same as choosing a bridesmaid. After all, this is the groom's best friend, the new people can trust, and the gift money will be given to the groom in the end.
3, parents charge
If the bride and groom's wedding is paid by their parents, it makes sense that the gift money belongs to their parents. As for which one or how to divide it equally, it needs to be discussed privately, and then the parents of both parties will come to collect it.
Second, how to deal with wedding gifts:
1, the man's parents take it.
If the husband and wife hold a wedding on the man's side, or the money for this wedding comes more from the man's parents, then this gift money is understandable to belong to the man's parents. Because most of the people who came to the wedding were their relatives, they took all the money back to prepare future gifts.
2, the woman's parents bring
If the wedding is hosted by the woman, or if the woman's parents pay more, then the gift money should be given to the woman's parents. This is the same as above
Step 3 be a new person
The wedding is held by the newlyweds themselves, or parents give money to the newlyweds in the hope that they can live a better life after marriage, then the gift money should belong to the newlyweds. After all, we still have to repay our colleagues in the future, and it is also appropriate to leave a little.
Step 4 distinguish them
The gift money given by the relatives of the man belongs to the parents of the man; The gift money of the woman's relatives belongs to the woman's parents, and no one cares. Gifts from new colleagues and new friends should belong to the couple themselves. After all, everyone will pay it back in the future, so it is also a very good choice to divide it separately.
Summary:
Who should collect the gift money and how to deal with these problems after receiving it can actually be solved by the family together. After marriage, the two couples became a family, and the two families became relatives, so there are things we can discuss.