Someone once asked what would happen if there were "ifs" in the world? I don't know, but ......
If life can have a second chance, will we have no regrets?
If there were not so many regrets in the world, would we be very happy?
If there is regret medicine in the world, can we go back to the beginning?
Unfortunately, there is no if in life, only the result.
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There is no if in life, and you can't start over.
Proposing marriage is never exclusive to men, and women have the same right.
In the movie My Love, which was shown in May this year, there was a clip in which You Yongci said to Zhou Xiaoqi: Why don't we get married? She looked at the boy she loved with expectant eyes, and expressed her heartfelt expectation, hoping to get a desperate answer.
Zhou Xiaoqi said, I have nothing now, and I can't even give you a decent marriage. Don't be ridiculous, but I didn't see the loss and sadness in You Yongci's eyes when he heard this answer.
Stephen Chow, who is nearly 60 years old, is still unmarried. His career is undoubtedly successful, but he is emotionally unsuccessful. And in love, there is a woman he can't let go of for a long time, Luo Huijuan.
At that time, after Stephen Chow and Luo Huijuan dated for a period of time, Luo Huijuan thought it was time to get married, so he said affectionately to Stephen Chow, "Let's get married." Stephen Chow replied, "You are crazy." In this way, a relationship was ruined by this sentence, and it went away. When Stephen Chow regretted it, the love in her heart had become the bride of others.
If he knew that this beloved girl would be someone else's bride, he would say I do.
The film "Moonlight Box of a Chinese Odyssey" that he once filmed may be an obsession in his heart. He hopes to send him back to the past with the help of the moonlight box. Unfortunately, no matter how the moonlight box can go back to the past, it will never come back in real life.
Whether I love in the play or Stephen Chow in reality, their lives are like movies. The same thing is that they have the same experience, but the difference is that the former can be ng, and the latter is just live broadcast, without rehearsal, never NG, and there will be no chance to start again.
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Regret is the normal state of life and cannot be compensated.
Once, I found a question on the forum: Do men pay more attention to their careers or their feelings?
Netizens have different answers. Most men choose careers, while most women think that it may be better for boyfriends to attach importance to feelings.
In my opinion, career and feelings, no matter which side is valued, are not good. They are equivalent to the relationship between spear and shield. If he pays attention to feelings, then he may be mediocre and you may not love him. If he pays attention to his career, he will definitely ignore your feelings, and you will feel that he doesn't value you.
In fact, every man has two women in his heart, a red rose and a white rose. One is Zhu Shazhi in his heart, and the other is Bai Yueguang in his heart. No matter which one, people can't give up.
The regret in the world begins with goodbye. And the luck in the world often lies in the real goodbye after the event.
After Luo Huijuan, Stephen Chow met another girl, Athena Chu. They spent some time together, but they didn't get together in the end.
If Luo Huijuan is Bai Yueguang in Stephen Chow, then Athena Chu is Zhu Shazhi in Stephen Chow. Unfortunately, because of his career, he missed Bai Yueguang and Zhu Shazhi.
Plato once said: "The most regrettable thing in life is to give up what you shouldn't give up easily and stick to what you shouldn't."
The word "regret" explains more than half of the world and more than half of Stephen Chow's life. It's a pity that there are more regrets and less luck.
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There is no regret medicine in the world, so you should be careful in making any decision.
A Liang broke up with his girlfriend Lingling. On the day of breaking up, he happily opened the suitcase and invited friends around him to celebrate the break-up, saying that breaking up should also have a sense of ceremony. I went too.
The reason why they broke up was very strange, because their girlfriend Lingling was too clingy and didn't give him any space to fall in love like a prison, so they broke up.
Lingling is a very good person, because she was hurt by her ex-boyfriend, which made her not believe in feelings. When Liang chased her, she refused at that time for fear of being injured again. But women are always emotional, and A Liang's care and love for half a year touched her heart.
A good relationship is to restore you to your original appearance and spoil you as a child.
The appearance of Liang became Lingling's savior. After careful consideration, she decided to stay with Liang, who was also very kind to her. But I don't know when the feelings between the two changed.
For the first time, they had their first quarrel over a very small matter. There is a first time for everything and a second time. Slowly, they quarreled more and finally broke up.
She once thought that Liang would be her savior, but I didn't expect that he brought all the troubles. Maybe men don't know how to cherish it when they get it.
After breaking up, the news that A Liang opened the box to celebrate reached her that night. She quietly packed her things, emptied all the things related to A Liang, booked a plane ticket, and left this sad city silently.
I have heard a classic saying that people who say loudly that they want to leave are often people who don't want to leave, because those who really want to leave are very careful to close the door, shh. ......
A month later, A Liang regretted it. He is used to Lingling's company and the days when Lingling is by his side. When he went to Lingling, it was too late. Lingling left quite simply, leaving nothing behind. There was a sea of people, but no one knew where she was going. Some people turn around for a lifetime, goodbye, but never see her again.
And their stories tell us that the rest of your life is very expensive. Don't pay with regret, because everything in the world can be copied, only time can't.
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Most people in the world want to have a chance to start over and go back to the moment before they left regrets. It's a pity that there is only Stephen Chow in the world, and there is no box of moonlight.
The regrets left in youth and the regrets lost eventually become opportunities for everyone to grow up. Unfortunately, the cost is too high.
Those old people who often sit in the countryside to enjoy the cool often hold a fan in their hands and look at the distance while fanning the wind. No one knows what they are thinking. But if you look closely, you will find that their eyes are full of stories.
Maybe they thought about their past and their regrets.
Regret that you know too late and understand too late.
There is never a "if" in life and it is impossible to repeat it. May all people cherish the people around them.
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