28 years old is a beautiful age for girls, and this time is just the time of happiness. There is a gentle husband and lovely children, who are all working hard for a happy family.

There are always exceptions. This exception should appear in most people, including myself, who have never been seriously young. Reality forces you to "grow old" seriously. When people around you are talking about husband and wife, decoration and wedding, and you are really riding in the air, you are listening to everyone's conversation, as well as parents' helpless eyes and nagging words, which makes you have to recognize this fact.

The greeting on the phone is not that you have eaten enough and slept warmly, but that someone is married again, and someone is as old as you and gave birth to a second child. I want to hold a year-end wrap-up meeting in the New Year, and waves of "social elites" follow. When one by one disappeared into the sea of people, and you were still alone, everyone slowly pointed all the questions at you and summed up their own so-called theory, that is, this girl's eyes were too high. Gradually I became a "problem child" in everyone's eyes.

In fact, life is a play, and we are both directors and actors in this play. I don't know what other people's 28-year-old looks like, or they are successful people, pointing out the country, or looking for their own way out on a certain entrepreneurial road, or simply content to protect their happy family. At the watershed of 28 years old, I only hope to direct a film of psychological redemption. It's not that I'm mentally ill I just want to live like I was when I was 28. I don't care what others think of my work. I don't care about marriage. This is a wonderful thing. When it comes, it will be as you wish. As for life, accept every moment it gives you. After all, people are only young once, and they get less and less every day. Know the world, not for the world. I have seen the fierceness of life, but I still feel warm inside.

It's not embarrassing to be 28. Don't be bothered by labels such as "the first old man" and "leftover women". 28 years old is the prime of life, the golden age and the transition period of life choice. We are less immature, more mature, less dependent, more diligent, less evasive and more responsible. At this age, some people have settled down in work, family and marriage and found a place to live. However, some people are still struggling with these. In any case, each of us is moving slowly along the trajectory of life, so we should grasp the present life and take the 28-year-old youth seriously.