First of all, the first and most important question .. After you break up with your present job, if you pursue it wholeheartedly, are you sure the Su family will accept you? Whether she has a secret crush on you or not, if she knows that you are going to get married soon, her appearance will ruin the happiness of another girl who has liked you for more than ten years. How should she deal with herself in her future life with you? If it doesn't matter, what is there to like about such a girl? If you feel guilty all your life, how can you bear it? I don't know whether love should be a kind of responsibility or selfishness, because responsibility is a shackle given by social morality and selfishness is the original sin nature of human beings. If your morality takes the lead in education, you can only forget that this girl you love deeply has given a happy promise to the girl who has loved you for ten years. On the contrary ... if you love someone else when you are in love, that's what you love ... a person's heart is so big. After installing one, you can't install another. Now you must have no feeling of love for your present job. At most, it is family relations. ..

My advice to you is to continue the wedding ... always regret, always forget ... A person's life can't be perfect ... You can't guarantee that even if you chase Sue now and solve all the problems perfectly, you won't meet any woman you like better in your later life ... If love is like the first time ... How many people can deeply understand this sentence ... We will always miss the person who met for the first time. Beautiful heart, feeling of despair, what have we lost and gained after ten years? Maybe only when our life is darkest can we understand that ... time is a ruthless meat cleaver ... and it always changes our appearance ... If you can't guarantee yourself at this moment, try to ensure the happiness of the person who has been with you. ..