Do it ~ ~ and do it at the man's house first ~ ~ You can pick up the bride ~ ~ at the woman's house in the local form first. Of course, you have to say yes first ~ ~ and then get on the train and go straight back to your home ~ If you want to be romantic when you get off the train, please ask your friends and family to get ready at your home. When you leave the station, you should take the bride from her family and have a discussion ~ ~ If you feel tired ~ ~ Let the bride stay. I don't know if you live with your parents. If so, take the bride out of your house and walk around your place (the size is up to you). If not, pick up your new home directly from your parents' home, and then pick up the place where you treat according to the number of people. Finally, remember to spend two or three days (you can also decide according to your own time ~ it is best to discuss) to invite your relatives and friends back to the woman's house. You can omit the part of picking up the bride. But when you get to the hotel, you can't save your wife's parents from changing their words in front of her relatives and friends, and you can't save a toast. I believe that both your parents and his parents can understand your practical difficulties and will not ask too much. As for the small number of tables, remember that as long as the right person is invited, the number of tables will not have much impact on the wedding.
I wish you happiness. If you think my method is feasible, because you don't know much about your specific necessary forms, you can supplement it and I can give you a specific plan. Of course, if you want to have a wedding hosting company, you can also find them directly. If they help, even if there are few people, it will enliven the atmosphere at the wedding scene.