First, the wedding gifts received
Since marriage is a matter for two families, there will be two group relatives, the man and the woman, to give gifts after marriage. For young couples, they just got married and don't know this. It can only be distributed by parents. Gifts are small money, and people with good family conditions don't care. After all, you can't make a fortune without this money. Every family is different and involves many problems. It is impossible to refuse the gift money given by others. I have sent my relatives and friends, and the gift money needs to be recovered. Once I refuse to accept the gift, it will give people the impression of playing big cards, and the other party will think that you look down on him.
Second, how to allocate it so that there will be no conflict?
The woman's gift money will be collected by her, and so will the man's. If everyone received their own money, there would be no conflict. You can discuss this situation with your husband in advance and see what his opinion is. Most men are generous and don't care about this meager money. Husband and wife can make a lot of money in a short time. There is no need to quarrel over such a trivial matter as gift money, which will only make outsiders look ridiculous, and parents-in-law should not participate in young people's lives at will.
In short, no matter who receives the gift, it is a family anyway, so there is no need to care too much. After the man and the woman become husband and wife, they are a * * * body, and they will face more difficulties in the future. The gift is just a small test.