But if you want to talk to someone, you must be representative. If you don't see someone posting on the Internet, you will believe it. Now you have to ask a question about all kinds of information on the Internet, except official media such as People's Daily, especially Zhihu and WeChat.
You should talk to people of different ages, such as 40, 50, 60, 70, 80. They represent different stages of life. You also have to talk to people with different occupations, backgrounds and family conditions, so that you can get more comprehensive information.
Only when you know this yourself can you have a complete understanding of this problem. Just like buying a house, you can't listen to the intermediary chatting with you, and you can't just look for posts online. You have to go to the scene to see the house more, so that you can have your own understanding of different houses.
If after these solid investigations and communication, you still think it doesn't matter if you don't get married and have children, then you can boldly stick to your decision. Because you have a more emotional and rational understanding of this problem than others.
But in this process, if you are hesitant, then you should consider readjusting your plan. Because the problems you find now will only get bigger and bigger with the passage of time.
Nowadays, many young people think that unmarried infertility is no problem, which is nothing more than these reasons:
As long as you have money, it will be more convenient to support the elderly in the future. There are other similar people around you, and they will be accompanied when you are old.
But you have to consider, can you really make a lot of money? Now you are in the golden age of your life, the day of our life. How much money did you make? Is your bank card balance enough to kill your peers? If you don't do it, how can you talk about "just having money"?
It is more convenient to support the elderly in the future, which is just your wishful thinking. Have you ever been to a nursing home? Have you ever been to a private pension institution? If you are unmarried, being old means that your parents are gone and your peers are old. Even in a nursing home, you should keep healthy. You are too ill to take care of yourself. You can't supervise how others spend their money, can you? People call you an old woman and slap you twice. Who are you looking for?
Maybe you said that the children of your relatives and friends can also help take care of them. Come on, wake up. People can't even take care of their children's biological parents, so I care about you. Are you an important leader in Guo Jia? Just ask yourself, are you willing to go out all the way to take care of your uncle's period? You don't even want to. Who else does? Are you kidding?
People say you have company when you are old, so I ask you, do you have company now? Can you find some friends to go shopping and eat with you at any time now? I can't find it now. Can you still find it when you are old? Do you think you can rejuvenate? I believe that people around the age of 30 have gradually realized that there are fewer and fewer friends around them. Because in this era, many people are married, and unmarried and married people can hardly talk together. People are talking about their husbands, wives and children. Can you answer these questions?