In my opinion, the first thing you have to do is to determine your own point of view. Which side are you on? Are you on the side of family or morality? Secondly, you have to decide which is more important to you, your parents or your boyfriend? Although parents are unique, we must be clear, do your parents love you? Knowing that he had an abortion not long ago, he threatened the man with abortion. In my opinion, this is not only an incorrect behavior, but also an irresponsible behavior for your children, because we all know that multiple abortions in a short period of time will not only lead to the decline of your physical fitness, but also cause damage to your reproductive system. In addition, because the house is a commodity, in most cases, most families will choose to pay by installment, and few families will choose the full amount, not to mention his family is not rich. It depends on whether a person is kind to you, not how much he has paid for you, but whether he has done his best for you. Therefore, I think you should stand firm now and express your wishes in front of your parents. And defend your boyfriend. If you like the wedding reception, you can make it up after delivery. Besides, it takes some time to hold a banquet. Now that I'm pregnant, I don't look good in a wedding dress. Being seen by your neighbors will have a bad influence on your reputation, right? Also, I suggest you go to the man's house to comfort his parents and express your kindness to them.