Hello! 1, let's start with the gift money: it's hard to say, hehe ... it's based on local customs and the requirements of the woman's family. There is no fixed amount. For example, if the woman's parents ask you to pay 654.38+10,000 yuan as a bride price, then you will get 654.38+10,000 yuan, and you can't bargain, because this is a matter of customary attitude. The so-called "one-time payment" means just giving 65,438+10,000 yuan, and nothing else!

Some want both money and goods, such as a gift of 80 thousand yuan, and other things, such as wine, meat, clothes and so on. In fact, the all-in-one machine is the most convenient and direct way to solve the problem!

Gift money is generally given in three times, not once (of course, it can be given at one time if you have the strength, hehe ...). For example, a total of 654.38+10,000 yuan is given in three times, that is, 20,000 yuan, 30,000 yuan and 50,000 yuan. In this way, of course, you can discuss with the woman's parents the amount of gift money for three times. This is negotiable, not necessarily 2:3:5, just so-so.

2. As for the return: According to the custom, cash is generally not returned directly. Generally, the bride's family buys a dowry for her daughter, that is, furniture and household appliances, which is more rational now. For example, if the daughter and son-in-law are not local and both work and settle in other places, then the woman's parents will count these furniture and appliances as cash for the son-in-law.

Don't worry, if the woman's parents are willing to marry her daughter to you, they won't ask for more bride price, or even may not. Hmm. How interesting ...

Glad to answer your question, I hope it will help you! Pure manual entry!