Chen Yifei can't stand other people's eyes: "Can't you be happy? Why, you are not satisfied with marrying me? "
Swallow squeezed out a smile and said, "Satisfied." But I thought to myself, satisfaction is satisfaction, but I can't see the future.
The two are not blind dates, but free love.
When Yanzi first met Chen Yifei, Chen Yifei was still a soldier. It is also a routine for heroes to save the United States. Swallow was walking home, and her satchel was robbed. Chen Yifei, who came home from vacation, was tall, handsome and brave, and offered to help. Swallows can't tell whether their heart beats faster because they are afraid of robbers or because they love Chen Yifei. Just looking at the figure in front of him, the swallow suddenly had an idea, if only she could marry him.
At first, it was a long-distance relationship, and Chen Yifei's troops were in another city. What Swallows look forward to most every day is a five-minute conversation with Chen Yifei in the evening. She always waits with her cell phone at 9 pm. She rushed to her room as soon as the phone rang.
Swallow is an only child, which attracts the attention of all parents. After several days of obvious performance, her parents confirmed that she was in love. Mother swallowed her breath. At the age of 25, she is not old enough to fall in love freely. The young man introduced by Jason next door seems to be left out in the cold.
Swallows, with the acquiescence of their families, will take the bullet train to visit relatives in Chen Yifei on the rest day. Most of the time, they just eat and chat together.
What Swallow's family didn't know was that Chen Yifei was occasionally allowed to leave the army for half a day off. At that time, he and Zheng Xiaoyan took a taxi to a hotel far away from the army. A warm-blooded youth, a young girl, there is nothing to be ashamed of.
Swallow is not a girl who is not sensible, but when Chen Yifei skillfully took out a condom from her trouser pocket, her heart still had some diaphragm reaction. So skilled, you should have seen countless women.
With a little expectation, what the swallow thinks is not how many women he has had, but whether he can satisfy him.
Afterwards, Chen Yifei vowed to return to Swallow's city after retirement and marry her home.
On the day of Chen Yifei's retirement, Swallow deliberately asked for leave and came to the army without saying hello, hoping to give Chen Yifei a surprise. On the way here, the swallow was a little worried. What if she comes across a plot that is often played in TV series? What if you really see him with another woman?
When they arrived at the gate of the army, the swallow felt very relaxed. It is a group of rough people who help Chen Yifei move things.
"Chen Yifei, I'm coming to pick you up!" Swallow smiles brightly.
Chen Yifei greeted her with a surprised frown: "Why are you here?"
The man who helped him move things leaned in and asked.
Swallow knows that these people are close friends of Chen Yifei who grew up together, and no one knows the existence of swallows.
Chen Yifei embarrassedly introduced to everyone: "This ... is my girlfriend, Swallow."
Zheng Xiaoyan smiled and nodded to them, listening to them poking fun at the hidden depth of Chen Yifei, thinking coldly, what am I in his mind for more than a year?
When the relationship between Swallow and Chen Yifei was confirmed, she had taken many photos of them happily, and specially sent them to him for him to send to a circle of friends, which was a proof of being single. He refused to send photos in the circle of friends on the grounds that taking photos is ok, but privacy should be protected.
Is there anything ambiguous in his circle of friends? Does he feel ashamed to associate with me? Or does he not like me at all? Why didn't he introduce me to my friends?
Swallow is full of questions, smiles patiently, and shows her usual cheerfulness and friendliness in front of her friends in Chen Yifei. It was not until the last friend was sent to the door that the swallow whispered to Chen Yifei, "Why don't your friends know about me?"
Chen Yifei asked in a tone that you still want to mention when it is clear that everything has passed: "Didn't you just introduce everything?" There are still unsatisfactory places. "
"All my girlfriends know you, even my family knows you, but we have been together for more than a year, and your friends don't know me, let alone your family!" The swallow spoke loudly to Chen Yifei for the first time.
Chen Yifei saw that the swallows were really angry, but his tone softened a little: "I pay more attention to privacy, and I seldom see them in the army. I don't usually talk about my private affairs. I have an opportunity today, but I have introduced it. " Let's make an appointment another day and have dinner together. "
The swallow looked at Chen Yifei's magnanimous appearance and nodded slightly hesitantly. This explanation makes sense.
From that day on, the swallow fell into a war with itself. She often asks herself, does Chen Yifei really care about her? She kept convincing herself that Chen Yifei cared about her.
But when I think about it, the swallow feels that she doesn't know the man in front of her. All she knows is that Chen Yifei's parents are divorced. Although it was awarded to his father, his father had already gone to other places, leaving him to his grandmother and forming a new family with another woman. Chen Yifei's mother is a strong woman and is quite proud of her career. She is usually very busy. Although she is in the same city as Swallow and Chen Yifei, there is no intersection except the living expenses that arrive on time every month.
Even Chen Yifei was admitted to graduate school and decided to go to graduate school. The swallow didn't know until afterwards. This made her feel that she had never participated in his life at all. This decision, which would have an impact on their future, was made by Chen Yifei herself. Chen Yifei's explanation is that the postgraduate entrance examination was introduced by a comrade-in-arms in the army. Although some preparations have been made, it is not easy to grasp this point. If you pass the exam, you will go there. Get married if you fail. I didn't expect to be admitted.
Swallow quipped, "I don't know. I thought you were studying hard to maintain your marriage."
Chen Yifei didn't laugh, just looked away.
The swallow added, "You can get married after graduate school."
"I still want to concentrate on my studies." Chen Yifei looked at the aggrieved pout of the swallow and added, "When I finish my studies and find a stable and well-paid job, I will support you."
Whether it is true or not, this sentence has convinced the swallow.
Three years later, the swallow was 29 years old. She insisted on breaking up with Chen Yifei more than once at home. Mother Swallow often said that even the talented young man introduced by Zhang Yi next door had a son last year.
During this period, Swallow told Chen Yifei more than once that she could get engaged without anything, and then get married when Chen Yifei graduated and her career was stable. Chen Yifei's reason is really wonderful. He said that he couldn't bear to let her live a hard life, and he had to be able to support her before he could get married. And his attitude is sincere, taking her to meet friends, relatives, parents. Swallow has seen almost everyone Chen Yifei knows.
The swallow thinks he already knows this man. Chen Yifei has some male chauvinism, thinking that it is natural for women to be masters inside and men to be masters outside. He doesn't believe in love and he doesn't know how to love. He often gets angry at will, can't control his temper, and always apologizes sincerely in deep regret. Swallows are used to avoiding its sharp edges and convincing themselves that there is no malice.
Chen Yifei has a high spirit, but he doesn't want to start with small things. He hasn't found a suitable job since he graduated from graduate school. Swallows sometimes wonder if Chen Yifei didn't want to get married and deliberately didn't go to work.
Before the swallow had the cheek to ask, Chen Yifei said that he had found a job in a financial company, which was introduced by his mother. Marriage is also on the agenda. Swallow knows that what matters is not the relationship between them, but the illness of grandma Chen Yifei.
Originally, the old man liked swallows very much. Whenever Chen Yifei takes swallows home, the old man will cook a table for them and ask after the swallows. Although the swallow is an only child, she has a gentle temper and a good eye. In front of the old man, she showed her favorite gentle and virtuous appearance.
This time, Chen Yifei's grandmother was ill in hospital, just as Chen Yifei's work was getting better and she couldn't leave. Swallow knew that Chen Yifei had the best relationship with her grandmother, so she took two weeks off without hesitation to take care of Chen Yifei's grandmother in the hospital. Although there is a feeling of caring for the elderly, Swallow actually wants Chen Yifei to remember her kindness.
After leaving the hospital, grandma gave Chen Yifei a task. She must get married this year. Such a good girl can't be missed. Chen Yifei's mother and father have no objection to Chen Yifei's marriage, just a matter of parting ways.
Swallows are not dissatisfied with Chen Yifei's family, nor are they very persistent in holding large-scale weddings. She thinks two people are good. Even Chen Yifei said that she would live with her grandmother after marriage, and the swallow was willing to accept it. On the one hand, caring for the elderly is Chen Yifei's filial piety. On the other hand, this house was originally left to Chen Yifei by my grandmother, and it is understandable for them to live in it.
Falling in love is a matter for two people, but marriage is a matter for two families after all. Mother Swallow is very dissatisfied with this arrangement. It is also a baby girl who was conceived in October and carefully cared for. Why do others want to give her a bride price of 200,000 yuan, and the wedding is lively and prosperous. When it comes to her own daughter, she will care nothing? Wouldn't it be looked down upon by her husband's family?
Swallow persuaded Chen Yifei to grow up with her grandmother and get married for the first time. I really don't know what the requirements are and what ordinary people are like. Let's discuss it.
As soon as Chen Yifei mentioned swallows, Chen Yifei gave up, pointing to swallows and said, "What do you mean, it's almost like others? I'm nobody else. You can marry if you want, and I don't want to be forced. "
Swallow looked at Chen Yifei's distorted expression, and those betrothal gifts would come back in full, plus one room and one car, so he said nothing.
Swallow's family is well off. If it weren't for the swallow's insistence, the swallow's mother would have changed boyfriends. Swallow didn't expect that Chen Yifei reflected so much on this matter. In fact, he knows exactly what he is, and he wants to discuss how to operate it so that both families can get by. Facing his reflection, Zheng Xiaoyan hesitated.
In the past, when embarrassed, the swallow took the initiative to make peace. This time, the swallow just wants to hold back and try. She is not stupid. Chen Yifei's attitude towards her is well known to everyone, but every time I think of the way Chen Yifei stood up for her in times of crisis, her heart beats faster.
Mother Swallow asked, "Silly boy, what do you like about him?"
The swallow thought for a long time, and finally cried and said to her mother, "I don't know, I just like it."
Mother Swallow also cried, "My daughter, why are you so poor ..."
Mother Swallow secretly made up her mind to introduce a better man to Swallow. Swallow is 29 years old, so it's good to find someone older than her who can take care of her.
After a while, Mother Swallow met all her friends who had sons, only to suddenly find that the scope of the 29-year-old Swallow's mate selection became very narrow. Aunt Wang across the building even introduced a divorced man. How does this make the mother swallow talk to the swallow? If you can't marry Chen Yifei, what should Swallow do?
Two weeks after the Cold War, Chen Yifei came to Swallow's house with her mother. Chen Yifei's mother is very talkative. She praised the swallow as the only one in the world and underground, which made her very useful. The awkward atmosphere suddenly warmed up.
Chen Yifei made it clear in front of the swallow mother that he would be kind to the swallow, and took out an engagement ring on the spot and put it on the swallow. Looking at the smiling face of the swallow, the mother swallow never said anything against it again. Chen Yifei's mother struck while the iron was hot and promised to do her best in bride price and wedding. Chen Yifei looked at the swallow with a smile, as if the gap between them had never existed.
Everything seemed to press the fast forward button, but a few days later, Chen Yifei's mother came to the door again with a witness, praised the swallow's home again, and proposed a bride price 20,000 higher than the average person, proposing to get the certificate first and then make good preparations for the wedding. The swallow felt that the dream was coming true and agreed at once. On the day of receiving the license, I was still dizzy.
Out of the civil affairs bureau, Zheng Xiaoyan deliberately slowed down, Chen Yifei didn't pay attention to her. Looking at Chen Yifei's back, it seems that it coincides with the back that saved her from the mire, and the swallow's heart suddenly becomes empty. Is this the person she wants to walk through life hand in hand? Her insistence, is it true?
The wedding is scheduled for 1 month, and the certificate has been received anyway. Chen Yifei hoped that the Swallow could move in with him, so the Swallow really moved in, and problems began to appear.
The first is housework. Chen Yifei doesn't do any housework. Usually, grandma does all the housework. Now that the swallow has come, all the housework seems to fall on the swallow. Every day after work, the swallow can see Chen Yifei lying on the sofa playing with his mobile phone, with his leftovers on the table. Chen Yifei's grandmother will tell the swallow what's left in the refrigerator, and she can find the remaining hot spots by herself after eating it.
Swallows never thought that such a life would be after marriage. Besides taking care of herself, she has to take care of Chen Yifei and his grandmother. Grandma will call her first if she needs anything. Swallow asked grandma why she didn't ask Chen Yifei, who obviously works closer to home. Grandma said that Chen Yifei was at work and would disturb him. Swallow really wants to shout out, she is working, too! But I still silently agreed to all grandma's requirements.
Trivial things pile up one by one, just like the smog on the swallow's heart, which makes the swallow breathless.
What she can't stand most is that even the husband and wife life that should be harmonious has undergone earth-shaking changes. Chen Yifei lies in bed and tells the swallow that he is tired every day. Let the swallow move by himself and treat him well. Swallow knows that she is such a role in Chen Yifei's mind, just like those ladies in the costume TV series, trying to gain a higher position by pleasing her master. Every time the swallow refuses to accept, Chen Yifei will use force and go on a rampage regardless of everything.
Swallow gave up painfully, and she wanted a divorce.
When accompanying Swallow back to her parents' home, Chen Yifei plays with her mobile phone at the dinner table. He promised anything his mother asked, and he didn't even have any respect for his elders. Swallows dare to be angry but dare not speak. Both mother swallow and father swallow can see helplessness and clarity from each other's eyes. They dare not say anything more than being doubly good to Chen Yifei. What should I do if I get angry here and vent it on the swallow?
Swallow offered to stay in his house for a few days, but Chen Yifei was very unhappy: "Isn't it good to stay in his house after getting the certificate?"
Zheng Xiaoyan is very determined. Anyway, she has made up her mind to get a divorce. Chen Yifei can do whatever he likes. Chen Yifei left his face and went home. The swallow finally felt that he could catch his breath.
Mother Swallow asked, "Where do you want to hold the wedding?" Swallow cried and couldn't speak. Swallow's mother accompanied her. When she finally cried happily, the swallow said, "Mom, I don't want a wedding. I want a divorce. "
Mother Swallow held the swallow in her arms, lowered her head and finally smiled.
It was during the cold war between Swallow and Chen Yifei. Swallow's father's company plans to outsource a big project, and Chen Yifei's mother's company is very eager to get this opportunity. Father mentioned this matter, and Mother Swallow moved her mind.
Swallow thought about Chen Yifei, but said nothing, just looked down from the 30th floor from time to time every day. Mother Swallow is really worried that she will be sad. If you lose your precious daughter, Mother Swallow can't live.
In order to avoid the tragedy, the swallow mother tried her best to persuade the swallow, but her children knew that once she found something, ten cows could not be pulled back. As a mother, she couldn't watch the swallow ruin her life, so she thought about it and went to Chen Yifei's mother. Since it doesn't make sense, let the swallow experience it for himself.
All the bride price money, even the engagement ring, is given by the swallow mother. She just asked Chen Yifei's mother to help facilitate the marriage, in exchange for the bidding qualification of the project.
Things are going quite smoothly. Although the swallow's mother was angry when she got the certificate, she watched them become legal couples in the future. It's not that she didn't give Chen Yifei a chance. If Chen Yifei can treat the Swallow well after receiving the certificate, she is willing to fully support the young couple. But what can I say? Chen Yifei really didn't leave any room.
Now, since the Swallow already knows that he is not entrusting a lover, the divorce procedure is easy, and it is impossible for Chen Yifei to leave anything to take back. Moreover, the divorced man introduced by Aunt Wang across the street, the swallow mother, has also seen and understood that he is actually a very good man. Who hasn't had a bad past? It's nice to be so close to your family when the swallow is married. Of course, it depends on the mind of the swallow. If she doesn't want to get married, it's much better to stay at home all her life than to go to someone else's house to suffer.
Love can be blind, but marriage is not. If it weren't for two of a kind, your contribution would be casting pearls before swine, and only you will be moved by your own sacrifice, which is the beginning of the tragedy. Not every swallow has a mother swallow.