When I am in love, many people may think that as long as there is love, as long as the object is good to me, it is good to get married, but when I really get married, I find out why there are so many problems. In the end, many people's love was defeated by pre-marital conditions.
People nowadays say they are realistic about each other, but who isn't? If there was no house before marriage, the house price is so high and the rent is so high now, and the job is already living in a rented house. Is it necessary to rent a house or have several generations crowded together after marriage, and it feels like a war to wash and eat, and you have to wait in line to go to the toilet, so it's your turn to brush your teeth and wash your face until 10?
You don't have to pay the full amount of the house, but you must have a house, even if you repay the loan together. At least you will have some sense of security in your heart. You are a man with a family. Without a house, I always feel like a homeless person with no roots and no sense of security. So a house is a must.
In fact, cars are dispensable for Xiaoke, because the traffic is very convenient now, so Xiaoke thinks it's ok without cars, but there are also many little girls who think others have them, so they have to have them themselves. See what they think.
The ticket here refers to the bride price. Some boys think that we should not give the bride price now. They think we are all sentimental people, and talking about money hurts our feelings too much. However, he thought about not giving the bride price, but always thought about how much dowry the girl would bring. Many people have conflicts over dowry, and even if they finally get married, they will be unhappy because of this.
There is also a woman who has the deepest influence on your marriage and is also the person who is most likely to cause your feelings to break up. Most family conflicts are related to mother-in-law, so you must see clearly what kind of person her mother-in-law is before you get married. If she is a tough or mean person, I advise you to give up. Xiaoke's classmate met her boyfriend's mother for the first time when she was in love with him. The first thing my boyfriend's mother asked was where to work, what kind of work to do and how much money to earn.
Finally, they got married, and their classmates got pregnant and lost their jobs. They were tortured by their mother-in-law and are now getting divorced.
Finally, there are your feelings and your future husband's personality. No matter whether he is a potential stock or not, no matter how much he was in debt when he married you, it's right to spend so much money to marry you. There is also the need to be self-motivated and caring. If you are self-motivated, your life with him will not be worse than now, and a caring person will generally not do anything wrong to you.
Marriage is such a reality, love only needs love.