In the Bible or western mythology, asexual characters are generally angels, because they are spiritual bodies, and the gender of spiritual bodies is vague. However, in reality, asexual characters are just ordinary people. They choose their own gender ambiguity for different reasons, some for their livelihood, some for their "daughter dream", but whatever the reason, they can't escape the fate, survival and reproduction of normal people after all.

Although they are ordinary people, their gender is abnormal. They were called shemale in China, and the word "demon" was ironic at that time and even at this time.

However, shemale does get different treatment in Thailand. At least under the treatment of normal people, good-looking people can even live a good life that most ordinary people can't.

Under such circumstances, a transvestite queen who was very popular in Thailand, a "queen" elected by all Thai people, chose to marry someone else and was married back home by a young man from China.

After all, the gap between environment, tradition and concept is not as attractive as love, as expressed in a movie, "What is morality? We love each other, which is morality. " .

Even if the growth environment is different, I can still find you At present, although people's tolerance has changed a lot, there is still a great "rejection", which is usually based on traditional conservative ideas and conflicting values, so it is possible to produce different things, and this kind of event can be seen even now, so it is needless to say before.

Moreover, China's son has been instilled with the idea that "there are three sons who are unfilial, and there is no way to be unfilial", so the pressure on men in China is basically greater than that on women.

On the other hand, in Thailand, people's opposition to differences with others is far less common than in China. Most of the reasons for this reaction are that Thailand's religious beliefs adhere to the concept of self-awareness and absolute self-spiritual independence. This concept of Hinayana Buddhism makes Thais more tolerant of people, and absolute mutual respect between people has become a major feature of Thais.

Therefore, no matter whether there is a "post" or a conflict of values, they will not interfere too much, even their own son, because he is an independent individual, should also be respected.

It is for this reason that transvestites in Thailand are basically found in all walks of life, leading ordinary or unusual lives.

The boy who grew up in China became a rich man when he grew up and was called "Brother Bao". Another boy who grew up in Thailand chose to change his gender when he grew up and became a beautiful shemale queen named Nisha.

On the street in Thailand, the boy met another unusual girl. She is a beautiful shemale. Through contact and pursuit, the gentleness and kindness of the shemale made the boy "deeply love", and the difference of environment could not prevent him from approaching her.

So what kind of attitude should traditional parents in China maintain so as not to conflict with their children's marriage to modern young people: ① Speak their own views appropriately.

China's parents still attach great importance to their children's marriage, so they will take full responsibility for it. However, this practice is obviously not supported by children, because your communication style has already caused children to have resistance!

As a traditional parent in China, you might as well talk to your children calmly. List your reasons for opposition or support, and then let your children think for themselves and adopt the interests.

(2) Don't be too involved in children's decisions.

Every young man has the idea of making his own decisions. For their other half, they have their own deep feelings. As parents, they should not blindly help them decide, but should try to make them choose a better one.

Don't take too much part in their decisions, and let them gradually become adults. After all, parents will leave their children one day. You might as well leave the decision to them. You can guide them and express your opinions, so that you can get along with them harmoniously.