The night before the wedding, the groom's family will usually find a boy (it seems that he must be a virgin) from the groom's friends or relatives to stay in the new house for one night. The old example pays attention to the name of "boys press the bed", and puts four apples at the four corners of the bed in the couple's bedroom for good luck and peace. Some people still keep this custom.
Let's talk about the bride's house again.
My girl is going to be a wife. The bride's mother will comb the bride's hair, that is, the "top", fold two thin cotton threads from bottom to top, and open her face. She will also prepare four, six or eight boiled red eggs and put them in the bride's carry-on bag (the custom of boiling eggs is still in some families now, but it is rare to open her face and head)
On the morning of the wedding, the word "double happiness" in red copper should be posted in front of the groom's house. The same is true in front of the bride's house, except that "double happiness at the door" has become a single happiness word, which is also to announce good news to everyone.
The wedding banquet must be prepared by two families to entertain relatives and friends who come from all directions to congratulate her. The role of the chef's boy was assigned early in the morning to prepare this exquisite and delicious lunch at noon. Some families will book this wedding banquet in the restaurant outside long in advance. The first batch of noodles with rich ingredients will be distributed to neighbors and friends' homes to share happiness and good luck (alas, to be honest, I may not have high requirements for food myself, but I think the best noodles in the world are probably a bowl of noodles I ate at noon at a wedding. The whole material tastes good, representing happiness and good luck, hehe)
It's time to pick up the bride when you are full.
The groom's family is usually the bride's elder who takes care of the bride's marriage. There is a group of women whose peers are not very specific. It is usually singular. 3.5.7. And so on. In addition, the number of people who marry the bride in the door is just even, which means "going to single and double". Prepare for the wedding. The bride's wedding dress and shoes should be wrapped in leather. The prepared headdress, double happiness, red dragon and phoenix flowers and so on are all to be worn by the bride.
There are four apples ready to pick up the bride's house, and at the same time, two apples in the luggage should be exchanged for two apples from the bride's house, and they should be brought back to the husband's house. Get ready, and the mighty bride-picking team is about to leave ~
Post a word "happy", men are happy and women are happy. It should be posted at the entrance of Loudaokou, at home and in front of the hotel. Small happy words are posted on small household appliances, furniture and other items, without special provisions, that is, happy.
Wear a happy character, and the woman's male and female relatives and friends should wear a happy character. The man's family is happy and the woman's family is happy.
Eat happy noodles at noon on the wedding day, and both men and women will eat happy noodles.
Pick-up team
One person comes, two people go. In other words, the number of people who come to pick up relatives must be odd, and when they leave, the bride is even.
Generally, the person who picks up the bride can be the groom's sister, friend or junior, and the bride can also pick it up in person.
When the bride goes out, her mother will peel a candy for the bride to eat, and the bride will say, "Mom, I'm leaving ~" ... It's best not to cry. Getting married is a happy thing, and it's troublesome to break her makeup ~ just be filial at ordinary times!
Farewell party
If you don't pick up your aunt or send her, you must first know that your aunt and her elders must never send her. The bride's parents shouldn't go with the motorcade, they should go last.
Accompanied by the wedding car are: bride+bride (optional)+bridesmaid+bride pick-up+makeup (optional)+bride's farewell party (younger generations such as brothers and sisters or nieces).
The wedding car must be even, Geely.
The route before picking up the bride and before going to the hotel can't be the same. You must take a different road. This is called "going back".
Open the door If the bride went to her husband's house before going to the hotel, then the husband's house should be closed. The bride shouted, Mom, open the door! Mother-in-law promised from the inside, and then opened the door to meet.
There is no uniform regulation on the issue of gift money. It depends on the financial conditions of the husband's family. For example, if the mother-in-law's family conditions are not very good, she buys a house and spends money on a banquet, then the gift money given by relatives will be used uniformly. If the husband's family's economic conditions are good, then the family's gift money doesn't matter.