If you just want to prove your generosity and open-mindedness, then you really don't need to get involved in this muddy water. Besides, you are married now. Even if you get a license, it's always wrong for you to take your wife to your ex. Aren't you afraid that your wife will come home and let you kneel and rub the washboard? Aren't you afraid of her nagging about your past with your ex?

What's so embarrassing about attending your ex's wedding? Many people here are friends of the same age. Wouldn't it be awkward to meet them? Won't the bride and groom feel embarrassed when they propose a toast? Or are you not embarrassed to see the parents of your predecessors? In fact, there are embarrassments everywhere.

Imagine the four of you standing together and chatting with each other. I feel I have goose bumps.

As adults, we will naturally avoid taking part in some uncomfortable and embarrassing occasions. You know it will be uncomfortable to go, why do you have to bite the bullet and attend? Really mature people will choose to live more comfortably. It is naive to express mature people by directly facing embarrassment.

You want to prove your open-mindedness, but you have to smile against your will in everyone's eyes. This kind of open-mindedness obviously comes at a price. I don't think it's worth the loss, and I don't know what to do. It's been so long, everyone is not who they used to be. Why go to a stranger's wedding?

Besides, the person she is going to marry, if she loves her, will only make herself embarrassed and depressed. Since there is no fate with her, I can only bless her silently. Besides, why waste money on strangers' weddings? Whether you get married or not has nothing to do with me. I can't give you a red envelope, and I don't want to know how you are doing.

I don't want to appear gracefully at your wedding, and I hope you don't invite me. Now that we're separated, we don't owe each other, so don't associate with each other.