Nowadays, many people's weddings are very boring. Many of them are procedural and procedural things, which have no substantive significance and have various problems.

I remember seeing the wedding scene in the countryside when I was a child, and I found that scene very memorable. The wedding procession usually starts before dawn, and when it arrives at the bride's house, it is not fully bright. Then play suona, talk, arrange music, explain, and send out the dowry that the bride's family is going to send off. Then, the bride carries the sedan chair on her back, and then the two brothers walk slowly and send it out slowly, usually just out of the village. Brides often cry and give up their families. I stopped crying when I left the village. The sedan chair people also stepped up their steps and sent them back to the man's house as soon as possible to have a good rest.

When I arrived at the man's house, there were many people waiting to pick up relatives and see my new wife in the community. That kind of excitement is incomparable now. Adults and children, women and men, all go to see it. By the way, when the bride gets off the sedan chair and scatters happy money, she can pick up some candy, peanuts and steamed bread. Then, after the bride got off the sedan chair, she was dragged around to tease. Then, someone helped her to the front of the incense table and worshipped heaven and earth. In my impression, men and women didn't really worship heaven and earth when they got married at that time Before they knelt down, they were disturbed by the new wife. Just push the bride and groom together, and then, the bride who slipped away suddenly ran to the kitchen and sat in the kitchen wok and couldn't get out. This place is the safest, because everyone is busy cooking and entertaining guests, and no one goes to the kitchen to make a mess. If the bride arrives at the bridal chamber, she will have to wait to be disturbed. There is a saying in the countryside that there is no age difference in the first three days of marriage, so some older people are watching it.

There was almost no tea at the wedding, and there were all kinds of trifles such as red envelopes. Couples who get married like that live happily. Now the wedding process has been relatively perfect. Some wedding companies, each bringing forth the old and bringing forth the new, all kinds of patterns emerge one after another, with high-end scenes, festive arrangements, many wedding processes, wonderful processes and many rituals, but they feel less lively than before. Together, it seems that there is no expectation, and everything is handed over to the master of ceremonies, and only the process is completed.

A few days ago, I attended the wedding of a young couple. As a result, one thing at the wedding shocked me and made me feel incredible. I still have a regret and heartache when I think about it now.

It was after the incident that I heard something about them at the dinner table. The bride and groom are colleagues, the bride's family is from the countryside, and the groom is from the city. They have been working together for a long time and have been in love for a long time. However, at first, it was strongly opposed by the man's parents. Girls at that time didn't like dressing up and looked rustic. Although she is of medium height, she cannot meet the requirements of the boy's parents, so she strongly opposes it. But boys like girls' personalities and think girls are very sensible. So, stick to communication. In the end, the boy's parents couldn't beat his son and had to agree.

I didn't like that girl before marriage, but my son insisted on marrying this girl. As a result, the man was not happy with the bride price at all. We agreed to pay 20,000 yuan, which means we have to go through the motions. As a result, I only got 10 thousand yuan when I got to the front. Finally, it is good for girls and boys to secretly take out 10 thousand from their personal savings and make up for it. Afterwards, the woman's parents returned the money to the boy and girl, but the girl and her family were still very unhappy and felt that the man's parents looked down upon people too much. But they think boys are still better, so it doesn't matter, and the marriage procedure is still step by step.

On the wedding day, the girl's parents took out 50 thousand as compensation because she was too far away. All the guests praised the boy for marrying a good girl, having good parents and a sensible girl. However, at the wedding, the boy's parents were black-faced and not happy at all. However, at the time of offering tea, it was time to change the mouth, and the boy's mother gave the girl a red envelope. The girl let go before she caught it, and the red envelope fell directly to the ground. Everyone with a discerning eye knows that this is intentional. The girl was also embarrassed at that time, and finally the master of ceremonies solved it and asked the groom to help pick it up. Later, there was a detail. The groom picked up a red envelope for the bride, but the bride didn't. In fact, at that time, it means that the bride is already emotional. However, there was no attack and the wedding went on as usual.

Later, when it was time for the groom to thank his parents, he was very emotional, to the effect that his parents had suffered a lot for him, and they should thank them and honor their promises in the future. These words are quite sincere and touching. This made her mother-in-law cry. She stepped forward and gave her son a hug with tears in her eyes for a long time. When she was released, her daughter-in-law was ready. Her daughter-in-law has opened her arms and wants to give her mother-in-law a hug. As a result, her mother-in-law ignored her and turned away in tears. This move makes people nervous again. Everyone thought that her mother-in-law would give her daughter-in-law a hug, and maybe all her unhappiness would be written off. But, no, the bride was very embarrassed. She opened her arms and took them back in an instant. Then, she turned and ran off the stage, saying that the one who should marry was not married. So disdainful of me, divorced after marriage. The scene was once very embarrassing, and relatives took turns to go to the stage and went backstage to stop the fight. After a while, the groom's family came to the stage, comforted everyone, said sorry words, and let everyone continue to eat in the future, and the wedding ended early.

The wedding reception was rather awkward. Without a new toast, the guests quietly finished eating and quit, talking about it everywhere, saying that this was the first time they met. Later, I heard that they were still divorced and could no longer be together. What a pity. An occasion that is too strong to distinguish occasion. Whether it is intentional or negligent, it should not be done. The other is that emotional control is weak, which leads to irretrievable things. It is difficult to judge who is right and who is wrong, leaving only regrets. For this couple who have been in love for so long, maybe they can't get out of this kind of injury for a long time.

When writing this story, I remembered that I had just been consulted. A girl said that her relationship with her boyfriend was strongly opposed by her parents. The boy's family is away from home, his mother died, and he lives with his father. The family conditions are not good. Her parents opposed their association and gave her two choices. One is to let boys get 350 thousand yuan and then allow them to get married. The other is to let her break up. It's hard for girls. Her boyfriend doesn't have 350 thousand, and she doesn't want to break up. She doesn't know what to do. In fact, I believe that the girl's parents don't really want money. The reason why they made such an offer was to force them to break up. I don't know the real reason for her parents' opposition, and I don't know the reason why the girl is determined not to let go. That true love is natural and precious. If you are cheated by accident, it is also a tragedy. After all, marriage is different from feelings, so you must be careful in your choice. The wrong choice may be a lifetime thing.

As parents, children's happiness needs to be grasped, but it cannot be controlled. You can guide, but you can't interfere hard. Because your control and interference may also ruin their happiness!