It is a custom to get on the bus in most parts of our country. There is a boy sitting in a sedan chair in the man's house, and the woman's house gives this sedan chair as a gift. But there is no getting off ceremony in most parts of our country. In most parts of our country, the woman's family does have the money to get on the bus. On the wedding day, the groom goes to the bride's house to meet relatives. Before the bride gets on the bus, the woman's house will give the man a car fare. In fact, this custom is of great significance, that is to say, my family is not selling my daughter, but paying for her trip. The specific number of red envelopes is also based on the fare paid by the man's family. For example, if the man's family asks the motorcade to pay 9988 yuan, then the woman's family will pay 10000 yuan for the man's sedan chair. At the same time, it also shows that the woman's family attaches importance to her daughter. The boy in the sedan chair will send the ceremony to the man's home after receiving it. The boy in the sedan chair is the man's brother or nephew.

In rural areas, men's families often invite four or five thousand motorcades. The woman's family will send a boarding gift of 6 thousand yuan to the man's sedan chair

Then how did you get off the bus?

As men and women become more and more equal.

The woman's family invited a motorcade. The team money paid by the woman's family is a boarding ceremony.

The man's family also invited the team. The money paid by the man's family for the motorcade is the ceremony of getting off.

Both families go Dutch and don't interfere with each other. There is no capital exchange between the two families.

In this way, the man's sedan chair disappeared.

Then why is the team money invited by the man's family called a gift? Because everyone takes care of themselves, the man's family has the least money

If the man's family welcomes the wedding, then the man's family doesn't need a motorcade, just wait for the woman's relatives to come at home. If the man's family picks up relatives, then the motorcade invited by the man will only run once. The natural cost is low.

If the woman's family wants to be a relative, she should be given to the man's family, and the woman's family should accompany the relatives and groom. The woman's family should send her meals and money, and the woman's family should also bring relatives and invite the man and the woman to a family dinner. The woman's family should also be relatives and give the young couple to the man's family in person. It takes two or three days to run back and forth. Inviting the team naturally costs more.