Since ancient times, it has been one of the four great pleasures of life. In the era of poor scientific knowledge, the ancients were very afraid of nature. Everything should be won in order to get a good result. Marriage is the top priority in life. Naturally, I also hope to give new people a good day. Besides the birthdays of both parties, the weather on the wedding day is also very important. Choose a sunny day and sing and dance happily.
In the eyes of the ancients, whether the weather is sunny or cloudy is a transformation of yin and yang, which is the theory of yin and yang and five elements. They believe that everything in the world has two opposing and mutually restrictive forces, namely Yin and Yang. For the weather, the sun is sunny and the back is cloudy. Yang represents the bright, warm, brisk and energetic side, while Yin represents the dark and cold side.
First, the husband and wife exchanged tears in the rain.
Knowing the thoughts of the ancients, it is not difficult to see that rainy days represent a gloomy side. A couple chose to get married on a rainy day. First of all, subjectively, they think it is unlucky and contrary to the jubilant atmosphere. At the same time, getting married in rainy days, muddy roads, inconvenient travel for relatives and friends, especially carriages or sedan chairs in ancient times, increased a lot of difficulties and washed away the original happy mood, while the rain soaked the bride, making people feel that the bride was crying.
Second, lovers in the snow should not go to the end.
Snow is also a negative side. In the eyes of the ancients, white represents the feeling of simplicity, elegance and chastity. Therefore, when the ancients died, the elements of clothing, plain clothes and plain crowns represented a solemn sacredness, and marriage was a great event. The scene should be auspicious, festive, warm and unrestrained, so red is the main color and heavy snow is white. Besides, the gloomy weather makes people feel heavy and gloomy.
In fact, this is a moral of the ancients to please the lottery. Moreover, there are different winds in ten miles, different customs in a hundred miles, and no sympathy in a thousand miles. Since ancient times, rain has represented resources, wealth, opportunities and prospects. Therefore, getting married in rainy days means that wealth enters the door, which means that the days after marriage are sweet and rich, and life is comfortable; Snow represents purity and sacredness, and there is a folk saying that "the wind is good and the rain is virtuous, and the snow is expensive", which means that a daughter-in-law is virtuous in rainy days and expensive in snowy days, which can bring wealth and official luck to the man, so marriage is a good day regardless of rain or shine.
To sum up, the phrase "husband and wife exchange tears in the rain in the countryside, and husband and wife can't go to the end in the snow" is an old saying, which has no meaning in itself. You don't have to choose sunny days to get married. As long as husband and wife are United and support each other after marriage, life will be rich and happy. Do you agree with this sentence?