However, most wedding dresses are expensive now. Ordinary wedding dresses range from hundreds to thousands, while the price of brand-name wedding dresses is tens of thousands or even hundreds of thousands. The high price of wedding dresses has discouraged many people, and few people will choose to rent wedding dresses.
Whether you buy a wedding dress or rent a wedding dress, you can. Choose the way you think the price is the highest, and buy according to your actual economic ability, so that your economic pressure will not be too great.
However, many women want to have their own wedding dresses permanently, and think it is better to buy them. At this time, it is best to discuss with your future husband before deciding whether to buy it, so as not to affect the relationship between husband and wife.
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Nancy and her boyfriend are college classmates. They have been together for many years. Because both of them like to live a stable life, not long after graduation, her boyfriend proposed to Nancy, and they formally put the wedding on the agenda.
Marriage, the most important thing is the bride price. After the parents met, according to the custom of Nanxi's hometown, they gave160,000 bride price money and asked the man to buy a house in the city. Nancy's parents will buy a car as his dowry.
Nancy is an art teacher in a primary school. She usually works very easily and has a long winter and summer vacation. Therefore, the wedding is scheduled for the summer vacation. During the Spring Festival, her husband accompanied Nancy to several famous wedding shops in the city to try on wedding dresses.
The price of wedding dresses in the store is uneven. For example, a set of customized hand-embroidered dragon and phoenix dresses costs more than 60,000 yuan, and wedding dresses cost more than 30,000 yuan and 1 10,000 yuan. Although the price is high, they are all beautiful.
Nancy originally took a fancy to a wedding dress of more than 30 thousand and thought it was too expensive. Later, she chose a set of more than ten thousand. Unexpectedly, her husband secretly pulled her over and said, "Nancy, this wedding dress is too expensive." You need to wear it once when you get married. We don't need to buy so expensive, and it takes up space when we buy it back. "
Nancy said confidently, "Getting married is the most important thing in a woman's life. You won't buy me more than 10 thousand wedding dresses Why are you so stingy? "
Marriage is very important, but there are many places to spend money. Just the down payment for buying a house, the bride price and the money for booking a hotel cost a lot. So Nancy's husband hopes to save money and not spend money on things that shouldn't be spent.
Nancy's husband thought for a moment and said, "Otherwise, let's rent this wedding dress, or we can buy a cheaper one." This is really too expensive. Will you understand me? "
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After Nancy's husband finished this sentence, Nancy didn't respond again, but ran out angrily, feeling that he didn't care about his feelings at all and didn't pay attention to their wedding.
Most of Nancy's colleagues and friends bought wedding dresses, and few people rented them. Even if the wedding dress is only worn once in her life, she still wants to buy it.
Nancy's husband told his parents about buying a wedding dress when he got back, so his parents called Nancy in turn and advised her that renting a wedding dress was enough, and there was no need to buy it. After all, they spent too much money on getting married.
Nancy gets angrier and angrier as she listens. She refused to give in, insisted on buying a wedding dress and told her husband bluntly, "If we don't buy that wedding dress, we will break off our marriage."
I thought my husband would compromise. Unexpectedly, he even said, "All relatives and friends know that we are getting married. Now we're getting divorced. Where do you want my face? "
Nancy was even angrier when she heard her husband's words. I didn't expect him to care about his face at this time, so he said directly, "I'm not afraid of losing face." How much did you spend on getting married? I'll pay you back a penny. It's really tiring to marry you! "
Nancy's tone doesn't sound like a joke. At this time, the man's heart really panicked. I didn't expect Nancy to ask for an annulment because of a wedding dress.
Not long after, relatives and friends also knew about it, and felt that Nanxi was too unreasonable. Isn't buying a wedding dress the same as renting a wedding dress? Everyone thinks that Nancy is doing something wrong, and everyone tries to persuade Nancy.
At this time, the man also said that he would buy a wedding dress as long as Nancy didn't break off her marriage. But Nancy felt that the problem between two people was not just because of a wedding dress, so she finally chose to break off her marriage.
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Marriage is a lifelong matter for husband and wife. When getting married, there are many processes to be carried out, especially the choice of wedding dress and hotel, which need to be discussed by husband and wife.
Now that you are married, you must have a certain emotional foundation. Don't quarrel over trifles. Where we should be modest, we should be modest, and don't lead to tragic results because of mutual incomprehension.
Now many people will choose to buy wedding dresses, and many people will rent wedding dresses. Couples can choose whether to buy or rent according to their own economic situation. It is best not to affect their feelings because of the wedding dress.
In order to make the marriage go on happily for a long time, husband and wife should learn to understand each other, tolerate each other, respect each other's decisions, and share responsibility no matter what happens. After marriage, we should also share the obligations in the family and do our part.