List of marriage assistants
There are six kinds of people to be arranged for the wedding, and how many people do things has been listed for everyone.
1. Wedding Manager
Usually it's an uncle at home or something. Take it.
The wedding manager needs to be in control of the overall situation, familiar with and well connected with every link of the wedding. In the process of wedding preparation, the wedding manager should know the terms of service of each contract and how the couple should prepare and design each link.
2. Chief Financial Officer
For the amount involved on the wedding day, it is best for the bride and groom's family to send someone to get to know their relatives. Mainly to receive gifts from guests and take notes. Finally, put them away and give them to the couple or their parents.
3. Custodian of articles
It is best to arrange three or four people to keep the goods.
The goods controller should take good care of the things needed for the wedding, such as the wedding accessories changed by the bride: skirts and gorgeous main wedding dresses. Moving around is really not a labor-saving job.
In addition, arrange a person to watch wine specially. Whether it's your own wine or hotel wine, remember how many bottles of wine you opened.
In order to avoid the waste of drinking more than one bottle, some hotels also provide the service of pouring white wine into glass jars and pouring wine for each table as needed, which can be used for reference.
Dessert table: Dessert table is a big piece, but it is not difficult to take care of.
Step 4 guide
Generally, it is better to arrange two or four people, and people who know their elders and younger generations need to perform together. Mainly to guide guests to sign in, register and get in place.
5. Bridesmaids
The bridesmaid is usually the bride's sister. In addition to accompanying the bride, bridesmaids have great responsibilities. It is best to arrange a bridesmaid group, and the main bridesmaid is in charge of the overall situation.
Preparation before marriage:
Help the bride determine the list of invited guests.
According to the bride's suggestions on the wedding venue, wedding style, wedding dress and so on.
Assist the bride to complete a series of shopping decisions in buy buy, such as buying wedding invitations, red envelopes, wedding candy and returning gifts.
Record all the procedures discussed with the bride about bridesmaids, including the time and what to do, and then inform other bridesmaids.
On the wedding day:
Go through the pre-marital agreement procedure with the bride and other bridesmaids again.
Go to the bride's house in the morning or one day in advance to accompany the bride, and other bridesmaids will decorate the wedding room with their families.
Assist the bride to locate the makeup artist, photographer, cameraman and wedding car.
Keep in touch with the best man at any time and prepare the wedding reception with the bride and other bridesmaids.
Help the bride change her wedding dress. Accompany the bride to the toilet. If it is a wedding dress, be sure to help lift the skirt to prevent it from getting dirty.
When the newlyweds offer tea to their parents, the bridesmaids will help make tea. In some places, if you are used to wearing a red umbrella when you go out, you can give it to the bridesmaid for help.
Take care of what the bride needs for her wedding.
Rings, jewelry, bride's bag (with gift money), bride's mobile phone, charger, replacement wedding shoes, wedding dress, photo props, etc.
Walk or stand beside the bride at the wedding. If it is a western-style wedding, help the bride decorate the wedding dress, hand over rings, hold flowers, hand over wine glasses and so on.
In the toast, it is best to follow the bride at any time. If you can drink, help the bride block the wine properly.
In short, bridesmaids must be close, enthusiastic and willing to contribute to the bride.
6. Best man
If a bridesmaid group is set up, the best man will also be a best man group, and the workload of the best man is not small, so a main best man should also be appointed.
Preparation before marriage:
Assist the groom to prepare for the wedding, such as which guests to invite, large and small red envelopes to be prepared in advance, and in some places, thank the emcee driving the wedding car and the four donkey kong red envelopes.
On the wedding day:
Communicate with the groom and other groomsmen again about all the procedures related to groomsmen at the wedding.
Help the groom make sure that the stylist, photographer, cameraman and wedding car on the bride's side are all in place.
Especially the wedding car, you should contact the decoration and arrival time of the wedding car in time. In the early stage, I also planned the wedding car route with the groom.
Keep in touch with bridesmaids at any time, especially when picking up relatives.
In the wedding game, being a good gay friends is the first one to rush in front of the groom and help him block the bridesmaid's difficulties.
Take good care of the items needed for the groom's wedding, such as mobile phones, chargers, red envelopes, rings, etc.
At the wedding, standing next to the groom brings atmosphere and hands the groom a ring, a cup, etc.
In the toast session, it is best to follow the groom at any time. If you can drink, help the bride and groom stop drinking properly.