When older single men and women are urged to get married, they always have such soul problems. Before they got married, many people were prejudiced against marriage and used it as a springboard in an attempt to change their living conditions through marriage.

Some women want to get rich by getting married, so when they get married, they will ask for a sky-high bride price, give all the economic pressure to the man, and abruptly turn their feelings into transactions.

Some men want to sit back and relax and enjoy success, thinking that marriage will complete their parents' tasks and they will get a free nanny. If they are more successful, they can also reduce the years of struggle in life.

If you get married with a utilitarian heart, married life will naturally be a chicken flying a dog jumping.

Although everyone has an attempt in marriage, if you want to get married for a long time, this attempt must be the love and waiting between partners, rather than relying on the other half to achieve your class leap.

Marriage for money is not necessarily unhappy, but it must be unhappy. Marrying for love is not necessarily rich, but it can last a lifetime.

The true meaning of marriage is the extension of love. It is the mutual recognition of two people, who can still stick to their own beliefs, tolerate and understand each other, open the door of love, and enter the marriage with acceptance and change. This combination is meaningful.

My best friend found a very rich man with both bread and love, and once became the envy of friends around him. But it didn't last long. When two people were about to talk about marriage, the man's family went bankrupt, the business capital turnover was ineffective, and the family situation plummeted.

At that time, many people thought that his girlfriend took a fancy to that man because of his money. The man's family changed, and he once guessed that his girlfriend would leave.

Surprisingly, however, my best friend married a man without hesitation, and the gift money received was used to support the man to make a comeback. As soon as I got married, I was in debt. Looking at my girlfriend's face exhausted by life, I feel very unworthy.

From a bystander's point of view, I still hope that my best friend can reap happiness from marriage at a young age. However, seeing the tired face of the best friend full of hope for the future life, the young couple respect each other as guests, but feel that this marriage is more warm.

Why are you getting married? I think the situation of my best friend and husband is the best answer:

Marriage is being able to be with your lover and spend your life together in the name of love. Whether rich or poor, healthy or sick, we will all be in the same boat and spend our lives together.

Marriage is to win people's hearts in the long journey of life. In the ups and downs of progress, you are tired, sleepy and tired, and your partner can become the strength to stand up again.

Life is only a few decades. Don't lock yourself in the cage of interests. Give your marriage some sincerity, it will be full of meaning and reduce unrealistic expectations. Marriage will not be a problem in life.

I hope that on the way, we can meet a lover, be indifferent to fame and fortune, just ask the truth and walk through every journey of life hand in hand.