1, who can't go to see the bride off?

(1) Number of relatives sent off

Many places pay attention to the number of people who send relatives, and pay attention to "one-way return", that is, the number of people who pick up relatives at the woman's house is odd, and the number of people who pick up relatives with the woman is even, which means "both husband and wife go home".

Generally, the number of people who send the bride is 5- 15, depending on the number of people who receive the bride by the man. For example, if a man marries a relative, it may be five or seven people, and it can make up an integer 10 or 12 people. This is the embodiment of "returning to the single and returning to the double", which means that husband and wife are beautiful and paired.

② the route of seeing off relatives

The route of seeing off relatives must not go back. Going back means going back on our word, which is unlucky for newcomers, so we must choose a road that can go to the end.

(3) take meat from the mother.

When you send your mother, you must bring the meat back from her. Usually the day before the wedding, the man will give the woman 1 a bag of noodles and 1 a piece of pork with seven ribs, wrap the meat in red paper, and then take two bottles of red wine and a celery. Noodles come from the mother, and meat comes from the mother, which means that the bride has to leave her mother and set up another door.

2. Send the attention of relatives?

Who will see the bride off?

Generally, male elders will be chosen to see relatives off. The elder who sent the bride off is an important role, played by the woman's immediate uncle, usually the uncle, uncle or cousin of the married person. If you don't have an immediate uncle, find the closest and dearest elder.

Send elders to be generous, have an authoritative position, and be able to hold the shelf. After sending someone to the man's house, he can't enter the house until someone picks him up. When eating, you usually sit at two tables, and the man sends someone to accompany you. Generally, people who send their relatives away drink less and eat less. After eating, they told their wives to leave.

(2) Can't send away her woman?

A. Pregnant women will not send their families away.

Generally, it is not recommended for pregnant women to send their families away, mainly because it is unsafe, and there is a saying in some areas that pregnant women will bump into new people's happiness.

B. Aunt doesn't come to see her off during her period.

In many areas, there is a traditional custom of "aunt doesn't marry, aunt doesn't give it away", because aunt's homonym is loneliness, aunt is suspicious, and it is not very good for newcomers. In some areas, sisters are not allowed to send their relatives off, so it depends on the local customs.

C. the zodiac does not send each other.

In China, the marriage of the zodiac is exquisite. Although there is no scientific basis, it will be used as a reference for good luck. Therefore, when the newlyweds do the wedding ceremony, they will refer to whether the zodiac conflicts with the newlyweds. In some areas, people think that the birth of George W. Xiang Chong will bring bad luck to the couple.

D. Parents will not send their relatives away.

People who send relatives and friends away are generally close friends, not including parents. Parents generally do not participate in the process of picking up relatives and can only send them to the door.

3. The custom and process of bride's marriage.

① Preparation for blocking the door

When the groom arrives at the bride's house and the bride receives the new house, she needs to prepare red envelopes in advance, deliberately making things difficult for the couple, indicating that the couple will feel that the marriage is hard-won and should cherish each other, and at the same time, in order to increase the festive atmosphere of the marriage.

② Bride-picking game

Many groomsmen and bridesmaids don't know each other. In order to avoid embarrassment, the couple can arrange a dinner before the wedding, so that brothers and sisters can get familiar with each other, determine the games to be played in advance, buy game props in advance, and get familiar with the rules of the game, so that the atmosphere for everyone to play is more harmonious.

③ Tibetan wedding shoes

The process of finding wedding shoes creates an atmosphere, and the way of hiding wedding shoes can open the brains of smart bridesmaids! If the game is arranged, the time for finding wedding shoes should not be too long. Remember to hide them separately when writing.

4 tea worship.

The bride needs to prepare tea bowls and make tea in advance. Newlyweds should bow to their parents and serve tea until their elders finish drinking.

⑤ details of going out

When the woman goes out, her brother or elder brother carries it in a wedding car. Remember that her feet can't touch the ground, then mother takes off her slippers and puts on wedding shoes for the bride. If you don't have a younger brother or elder brother, you can also communicate with the groom in advance and get on the wedding car.

⑥ Other customs

The groom should be accompanied by a bridesmaid when he goes out. The bridesmaid carries a red umbrella and scatters rice on the roadside. When the bride goes out, she holds an apple in her hand, which means peace! The bride needs to meet the man's parents when she receives the man's house, which is the door.