What his father thinks is his father's business, and what to do in the end. Your husband's attitude is very important
Besides, you are not necessarily heartless. You think you don't want anything, and the other person should be grateful, but it's a bit counterproductive. His family should buy it for you, but when there is no money, you have to stand up and sayno. The other parents still think that since you don't want it, it will be a surprise for you. Who knows that things you don't like to buy are too cheap? Your idea is either not to buy or to buy, but the other side's. This is a divorced and reorganized family. Now his father is thinking of his son in many things, in fact, it is also good for him. After all, he has another home. You mainly look at your husband's attitude, so all your grievances are worth it.