It's also called drinking heavily. The day before the wedding, the woman's family neatly placed the girl's dowry on both sides of the hall for relatives and friends to watch. The man's family invited two wealthy boys and girls, and both parents accompanied the bride. The man's family brought gifts such as sugar, wine, Baba and a piece of meat, and a "Lu 'an Book", which was folded into an envelope style with red paper. Write down the words "harmony between husband and wife" or "a match made in heaven", which includes a brush to write the girl's birthday with spindle ink. The bride will also take a little pig as a gift. In Daihua area, the gifts are a pot of wine and a pair of red eggs. Boys and girls are going to meet Geng Xu, commonly known as "memorizing eight characters"
When I arrived at the woman's house, the elders in the four villages of the woman's house and the four proprietresses at the wedding sat at a table and counted all kinds of gifts and gift envelopes. During the dinner, the women toasted the guests in turn according to the size of their generations, saying, "The glass is not clean. Wipe it clean with paper! " "The guest understood, first took the glass and drank it with both hands, and then put the red money prepared in advance on the plate. Then the girl's uncle respects the second round and the girl's sister-in-law respects the third round. Buyi people call drinking this wine "wiping a cup of wine". The atmosphere on the dining table was harmonious and full of laughter.
After drinking the wine, the banquet was cancelled. The eldest daughter of a woman's family will put a mirror, a pile of straw and hemp on the ground inside the gate, and then light an oil lamp for serving. Then two elders will stand on both sides of the gate, holding rice screens on the oil lamp and sifting things like cages, pillowcases, pillow towels and cloth shoes several times one by one (it is said that this will keep all filth out of the door and make it lucky and happy in the future), and then they can take the gate out and put it in cabinets and boxes. At this time, small and medium-sized ethnic groups swarmed up and down, sitting in cabinets and boxes, begging for money, and the children cheered for money and ran away. The boys at the wedding just took the girl's dowry and left happily. If this person is impolite, the children can't stay in the cupboard. This not only embarrassed the man's family, but also embarrassed the woman's Confucius, so how early the relatives prepared.
When the bride entered her husband's house, the groom's family had to leave home to avoid it. According to legend, this can avoid misfortune and everyone can live in harmony in the future. When the bride starts. Under the threshold of the main hall of the groom's house, there is a rake raking the field with its teeth facing the sky, and a plant oil lamp is lit below, covered with a rice screen. The bride must go through the rake, which is said to keep the filth out of the door. Next to the new door, two old ladies blocked the door with a bench. On the bench, there were bowls filled with meat, tofu and wine, and a lamp was lit. The dowry virgins offered meat and wine to the two old people respectively, and then turned off the lights with handkerchiefs (not more than three times at regular intervals), which is called "brewing medicine" in Buyi language.
Buyi people in Duyun, Guizhou have the custom of "taking a ride" in their new houses. Generally, "Pouch Song" is sung first, and two people are paired, one sings and the other supports. You must sing 12 Pocket Song to get your wallet.
Generally, the purse is filled with ginkgo and peanuts, which means giving birth early and being taken off by the woman's mother-in-law. In fact, people are keen on "singing purse" just because it is a good place to sing in competitions. Those who sing well in "Singing the Pouch" will not only be praised by the guests at the scene, but also be famous in the future. So there are many people who attend, and it lasts for a long time, sometimes singing all night.