I'm just talking about my relatives ~ You can refer to it ~ The man's gift money is usually around tens of thousands of 8 thousand ~ Now it's at least 30 thousand to 40 thousand ~ Generally speaking, the man is in charge of the house and decoration, as well as the gift money, and the woman is in charge of catering and household appliances ~ such as TV, refrigerator, air conditioner, quilt pillow = = =, and the woman's mother has to prepare a red box with money. It is for her daughter. Some people also put socks and shoes worn by their parents-in-law. That's about it. Every place has different customs, and everyone's family is different. It is impossible to hit a swollen face and pretend to be fat. On your own terms. It is true that two people love each other, understand each other and understand each other, and the rest is only superficial. The key is sincere love between two people. There are many families with different marriage customs, which leads to many contradictions between the two sides. In fact, these can be avoided. Happy wedding! Grow old together! Unite forever!