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Should we empty out our family for the wedding?
I don't think we should empty our family for the wedding. Two people don't need so much material love, and they don't need to pay attention to how much ostentation and extravagance. The main reason is that both sides are happy, and how big the wedding is, we still have to do what we can.

In recent years, there are many answers to the calculation of marriage cost, but "rising day by day" is the common sense of all parties. Some people even lamented that the "marriage price" is as unattainable as the current "house price". Many men are thinking about this question: how much does it cost to marry a bride?

Before, a Shanghai man "basked in" his own calculation results on the Internet: a house (90 square meters in the urban area, with an average price of 1 10,000) is 900,000+70,000 moderately decorated+50,000 household appliances and furniture+65,438 ordinary cars+100,000+New Matai Hong Kong and Macao tour16,000.

Based on this calculation, the man's family has 400,000 property and an annual income of 70,000. The final conclusion is: the cost of marrying a Shanghai upper-middle-class wife = the man used up his property+the man didn't eat or drink +65438 years.

For such a "lifelong event" as marriage, new people have never been stingy in consumption. A friend who got married last year spent more than 500 thousand on buying a house and getting married, so that for a long time after marriage, his lunch at work was mostly instant noodles. But he has no regrets. He said, "Isn't that why you have been struggling for so many years? No amount of money is worth it. "

This mentality is more obvious in women. Helen, a well-known matchmaking expert in Shanghai, said that most women would rather live a hard life before and after marriage, but also make the wedding romantic and novel, and most of them are expensive. The mentality of "high is not low" in wedding standards is the internal driving force for the rapid development of domestic wedding industry in recent years.

Helen thinks that young people should do what they can when they get married. "After all, the wedding is just a scene, and the key to the quality of marriage lies in whether the personalities and emotions of both parties can be harmonious." In her view, simple and creative weddings such as group wedding, traveling wedding, "grass wedding" and "vegetarian wedding" are all worth learning.