1、

I got married on 20 17, 10, 1, and the groom was my first boyfriend Chu Qi.

All my relatives and friends were present. At the wedding ceremony, under the auspices of the master of ceremonies, warm cheers and shouts broke out from time to time.

In my eyes, marriage is a ceremony. In one ceremony after another, I took a couple to review the details of their acquaintance, recall the time from childhood to adulthood, recall the painstaking cultivation of their parents, open a new chapter in their lives, and cherish the future days.

In all the ceremonies, the most unbearable thing for me is that my father gave his daughter to the groom, thanking my parents, which always brought tears to my eyes.

I once asked my mother, "Why are the parents of the groom smiling from ear to ear at the wedding, but the parents of the bride are not so happy?"

My mother asked me in turn, "can marrying a wife be the same as marrying a daughter?"

"Would you be sad if I got married?"

"Of course, I must be sad."

"Marriage is also a great event in life. Why are you sad? "

"If you marry someone, you can't see them every day."

"Then I won't get married, and you can't see me every day!"

"That's different."

"I don't care, but you must be happy when I get married."

"good!"

"Say yes, don't cry!"

2、

When I took Chuqi home and introduced him to my parents grandly, they received him warmly, which made Chuqi feel that his parents were satisfied with his future son-in-law.

After Chuqi left, my parents talked to me seriously and made it clear that they opposed my association with Chuqi.

"Aren't you satisfied with him?"

"Where do you see that we are satisfied with him?"

"Then you are smiling at him. Are you all pretending? "

"We are your parents. If you bring him back, he is a guest. We should treat you well for your sake. We can't go back and let people find fault with you. "

"Mom and dad, you have gone too far, why don't you let me associate with ChuQi? I will never marry him in my life. "

"We are your parents? Will it hurt you? We want you to have a good life more than anyone else. "

"Yes, you have been there before. You eat more salt than I do. You have crossed more bridges than I have. You keep saying that for me, for me, for me, you will accept it. "

"Girl, marriage can't be a joke, you have to think clearly!"

"I think very clearly, otherwise why did I bring him to see you!"

After the fierce quarrel, I packed my bags and went back to work. Before I left, I also said that in this life, I was with Chuqi.

I know in my heart that my parents are not dissatisfied with Chuqi, but the real problem between us: Chuqi's home is more than 500 kilometers away from mine, and my mother sounded the alarm for me in middle school, and she is determined not to marry soon. Love comes too fast, like a tornado, and I have long forgotten my mother's advice.

I met Chu Qi in college, and they fell in love. After graduation, we began to discuss matters related to marriage. I have been to Chuqi's home, but my parents don't know that when I brought Chuqi back, we had been in love for three years.

My parents called me several times after I left home. The implication is that they found me the so-called suitable marriage partner at home, and I refused them one by one. When they bothered me with such things again, I said, "I won't go home unless I accept Chucky."

Like most girls who are bent on marrying love, my family and I started a struggle.

In this way, it will be two years. In the past two years, I have only been home once during the Chinese New Year.

At the beginning of this year, Chu Qi mentioned marriage to me again.

What should come will come, and some problems will be faced and solved after all.

3、

Chuqi's parents came home to propose marriage, and my parents didn't show anything unusual. All their unhappiness will be buried for me, and I can't lose face in front of others.

I imagine that my parents will give me a lesson after the Chuqi family leaves. I can't escape this storm anyway.

To my surprise, after Chuqi's parents left, the home was quiet. My mother went to cook and my father helped me. I don't know what medicine they are selling in the gourd, but I vaguely heard my father say in the kitchen that women are not allowed to stay. Between words, there is some helplessness and reluctance.

That night, my parents cooked a lot of dishes, all of which were my favorite. As the TV series said, prisoners on death row will be served delicious food before execution. I think my parents will definitely kick me out of the house after this meal.

I grabbed the rice in the bowl and gave them a suspicious look.

"Eat more and order more, which is what you like." Then my mother put some vegetables in my bowl.

I ate carefully, but I still couldn't help talking to them:

"Mom and Dad, about me and Chuqi?"

"Well, since you have been in two of a kind for so many years, what can your father and I do to you?"

"So, you agreed."

"Are we in charge?"

"I know that you love me the most and won't embarrass me, right, mom and dad?"

"Just like you now, let us love dearly. We have raised you for so many years, and we still say that we are going to such a far place. "

"Now that the traffic is so convenient, are you still afraid that I won't come back to see you?"

"We are just worried that you will be wronged after going so far, and there is no place to complain."

"Mom, don't worry, Chu Qi is so kind to me, and I won't be wronged."

"You are still too young."

Although they have been worried about my long marriage, they still tried their best to prepare for my wedding.

4、

As the wedding March sounded, I walked slowly into the meeting place holding Chuqi's arm. The guests on both sides cheered. My parents sat on the aisle side without looking up. I saw them secretly wiping their tears.

I'm a little nervous.

I didn't hear what MC said at all, and then I was completely led by the nose, mechanically completing a task given by MC, and my heart was completely led by my parents.

Thanksgiving parents link, ChuQi for their parents just simple parents hard, just moved me in a big mess, looking at mom and dad sitting in front of me, the first time I looked at them so carefully:

Mom and dad have gray hair, and wrinkles are the traces left by years; The carving of life makes their skin rougher. Dad's eyes are red. This inarticulate man has been gentle with me for more than 20 years. When he gave my hand to Chuqi, there was only one simple and powerful word, treat my daughter well. Mother turned her face away, and I clearly saw her tears fall like broken beads. ...

"Let's hear what the bride has to say to her parents?" The host came up to me and said to the guests present.

I took the microphone that the MC handed me, and my hands trembled. I have a lot to say to them, but I choked up as soon as I started. It took me a lot of effort to finish: "Mom and Dad, you have worked hard. I will live a good life. I love you. "

Tears filled my eyes.

I couldn't help jumping into my parents' arms. They stood up and hugged me tightly. In the misty eyes, I saw that a few days before my wedding, while I was asleep, my mother quietly walked into my room, touched my face, tucked me in for a few minutes and went out without saying anything. She thought I was asleep, but I wasn't. I couldn't help crying when I saw my father, a strong man.

My mother is still crying herself, but she wiped me and comforted me: "It is unlucky for a bride to cry."

But I am going to cry, in front of my parents, just like when I was a child. I always thought that my parents could allow me to marry Chuqi because they were helpless to me. However, the war between parents and children always ends in the child's victory. I think their compromise is actually the most natural love of parents for their children.

After the wedding, before leaving, my mother told me, "You chose the road yourself. From now on, don't be as headstrong as you are at home. After marriage, you will become an adult. We can accommodate you, others may not be able to accommodate you. Get along well with your in-laws. If you are happy here, we will be happy. "

Many feelings are understood in a flash.

These days, for my wedding, they also broke their hearts. They have worked hard for more than 500 kilometers. My dad said: "As long as Chu Qi and his family know that my girl is loved and loved, but you can't bully her!"

My favorite crystal ball was accidentally broken by others, which made me sad for a long time. The crystal ball can be bought again, but the original feeling is gone, and I am still sad about its demise. My mother said, "You can be sad for so long with a crystal ball, not to mention that I have raised you for more than 20 years?"

"But I can come to see you at any time."

"Thousands of miles away, which is so easy."

Someone once said that the best distance from my parents is a bowl of porridge, but I am not happy to enjoy it. Now I am still immersed in the joy of forming a small family with Chu Qi, but after leaving, I also understand that no one will love me like my parents.

When I put on my wedding dress and walked into the marriage hall, many people smiled and blessed me. There was a roar of joy among the flowers, but my parents silently wiped their tears in the corner. They looked at me with tears and smiles. Only they saw my difficulties and worries about the difficulties I will face in the future. All their understanding is to keep me from the thorny road.

I think they are still worried about me on the bus home thousands of miles away.