So/kloc-After the Chinese New Year in 0/9, I met my parents. Before the Mid-Autumn Festival, the two families had a meal together, made an engagement, and then discussed the wedding date.
Because we were both born in 19, we didn't consider getting married in 19. There is a custom here, that is, the date of marriage should avoid the birthday month of both families (if the daughter is married, it can be ignored), so March in the first half of 2020 was chosen.
The hotel has been booked, the wedding photos have been taken, and the wedding dress to be worn for the wedding has been chosen. We are waiting for the wedding next year.
In the process, I found myself pregnant, which was an unexpected surprise. Both parents are also looking forward to the arrival of their children. I just didn't expect the plan to keep up with the change.
Because the epidemic in Wuhan is so serious, most people are shut at home now, which is really the best way to control the epidemic. But it did cause many people to postpone the wedding. No red is not allowed, no white is simple. ?
I thought I was going to get married in March, and my stomach was not big enough to wear a wedding dress. According to the present situation, it is very difficult to hold the wedding in March as scheduled. If I postpone it, it won't suit me after May. At that time, the stomach will be big and the physical strength will not work. Getting married is a very tiring thing. If it is not because of pregnancy, it is entirely possible to postpone it until the second half of the year.
It is normal to discuss with my husband, and then we will keep everything simple and he will pick me up. What to send and what to buy, just go through a process. Actually, I have no special requirements for this kind of thing. I talked to his parents that day, and his parents said it was okay after giving birth. ? I think we should simply do it. When we get well in the later stage, we can just make up the feast. It's really awkward to have a wedding after giving birth. Ugly and fat. Even a wedding is not what I expected.
My parents have no problem, just follow us. He and I are now in a wait-and-see state, and it depends at the end of this month. I've been having a headache because of this recently, which is too much trouble. Although I didn't get married by children, I still suggest getting married before getting pregnant.