During the May Day holiday these two days, there are more and more wedding banquets. Many of them are weddings of children from divorced families.
Xiao Ai is a girl. Parents divorced. The specific reasons for the divorce are unknown. Rumor has it that Xiao Ai's father cheated on him. Mother is a strong woman. Don't tangle with the cheating father. Unlike a woman betrayed by her husband, she tried to die and fight hard.
Xiao Ai's mother divorced her husband. Because Xiao Ai's mother thinks that she can't pretend to let bygones be bygones, nor can she pretend that husband and wife are harmonious and have a happy family life. I can't let Xiao Ai feel the warmth of her family in disguise. Instead of letting Xiao Ai grow up in a seemingly complete but actually broken family, it is better to give Xiao Ai an incomplete but all the happiness and warmth come from a real single-parent family.
Xiao Ai respects her parents' decision. When she is alone with her father or mother, she prefers to feel their real feelings and thoughts. I don't want to tie my parents together, because I want to have a complete family. Because of this, her parents' cold war and chilly language, like a small knife, also stung her heart.
Xiao Ai's father and his new lover soon became a family. Years later, Xiao Ai's mother also found a suitable partner under Xiao Ai's repeated persuasion.
Now, Xiao Ai is getting married. The little moxa at the wedding is very beautiful. I'm curious, which father will give Xiao Ai to the groom.
People were surprised but not surprised when Xiao Ai appeared at the ceremony holding his stepfather's hand. Stepfather holding little moxa, naturally like his own child. People even ignore that they are not related by blood.
But when the couple offered tea to their parents and thanked them for their parenting. Seeing Xiao Ai's stepfather sitting on the stage, I can't help thinking of another person, Xiao Ai's biological father.
People think so, but that doesn't mean denying that Xiao Ai's stepfather can't sit here. I can see that Xiao Ai's stepfather treats Xiao Ai like his own child. But people still can't help but think of the man who gave Xiao Ai life. People will feel sorry for that person more or less. Although the man may not think so himself.
So I thought, is it more appropriate for my biological parents to sit on it in the tea ceremony at the wedding of children from divorced families?
To test this idea. Xiaobei's wedding is coming. Xiaobei is also a girl. The difference between Xiaobei and Xiao Ai lies in Xiaobei's high education and high salary. Xiao Bei and Xiao Ai are the same, but their father cheated and was caught by their mother. Both parents are literate people and break up peacefully. Even for my daughter, we can communicate calmly.
Xiaobei's father also married his new lover soon. Xiaobei's mother was introduced and found an honest and reliable man to marry. This man is not as handsome and beautiful as Xiaobei's father. However, this man will cook braised pork for the mother and daughter, keep the house in good order, braved the heavy rain to pick up the mother and daughter who came home late and take good care of them.
However, this man did not appear in the ceremony of offering tea to his parents at Xiaobei wedding. What appears in this link is Xiaobei's respectable biological father. But people, people are uncomfortable. People are used to seeing the honest man who takes care of the mother and daughter in rain or shine. He deserves a good time, too.
But on second thought, I can't help but feel funny. At the wedding of divorced children, the stepfather sat on the podium in silence for his biological father. The biological father sat on the podium, feeling wronged for his stepfather.
In fact, everyone knows to drink cold and warm. As long as they are happy. what do you reckon ?
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