In the traditional bride selection process, marriage is the most hectic time for newcomers. Although the customs of the wedding process vary from place to place, there is a tradition of picking up the bride in every place. Many people don't know much about traditional crafts. Let's share the traditional bride selection process.

Traditional bride picking process 1 Knock on the first door

Before the groom marries his wife, he must knock at the door. Only after a process can he enter the bride's house. The significance of this process in our traditional wedding custom in China lies in "stabilizing the groom's temper". The bride's house will not easily open the door for the groom, and it will always go through several tests before opening the door. This custom has been popular ever since. Therefore, the groom should be fully prepared before entering the bride's house. What should he prepare? For example: red envelopes. In the past, the groom's red envelopes were scattered silver coins or dime notes. Times are different now. The groom's red envelopes are on the rise, with 100 yuan and 200 yuan's red envelopes long gone. A single hundred dollars is very common. Before entering the house, the groom should not only give red envelopes, but also answer questions raised by relatives and friends, such as the bride's birthday? Hobbies? How should the groom behave after marriage? Maybe let the groom sing a few songs to get in.

Don't rush to see the bride when you enter the house.

When the groom enters the bride's house, don't rush to see the bride, because the first thing the groom sees is that the bride is her parents. How can she go straight to the bride without saying hello to her parents? That would be rude. So when the groom meets the bride's parents, he must say hello first. How to greet them is also a science. It's no problem to call them directly, because they are registered and legally married. Some newcomers are going to change their names in the tea house, but now they are faced with how to call their parents, and it is obviously not appropriate to call them uncles and aunts. What should they call them? It can be called "parents", which means two old people. Two old people are neutral words, and there is no problem in how to explain them.

According to the wedding custom, there is a requirement for the number of in-laws to pick up relatives. The number of in-laws receiving relatives should be odd and even, which is the custom of "couples in pairs" in wedding customs. However, this kind of pressure is only directed at the husband's family, and there is no demand for the number of people to send their families off. Because in the past, the wedding custom meant that when a husband married a daughter-in-law, it was equivalent to marrying a bride, and the family basically did not attend her husband's wedding, so it was generally not concerned about how many people attended her husband's wedding. According to this custom, after the groom meets the bride's parents, he should introduce the bride's family composition, including the groom himself, which should be an odd number. After receiving the bride, it becomes an even number. The principle is that odd numbers go in and even numbers go back. However, there are many people accompanying the groom to meet his relatives, some of whom may be dozens, including photographers, photographers, friends of the groom and so on. The groom can master this. No matter how many people go to see his relatives, the groom only needs to introduce a few of them, such as the best man, brother or sister, and others don't need to introduce them one by one.

The bride's family should put some snacks, cigarettes, sugar, fruit and tea on the table. At this time, the bride's parents can be courteous and ask the groom to take care of the bride's family as a gift from the landlord.

Knock on the door and enter the bride's boudoir.

The process of knocking on the second door is basically the repetition of knocking on the first door, but there may be new ways to play, such as asking the groom to sign or read the guarantee, and asking the groom to pay the red envelope again. Grooms must calm down and be patient. Don't worry, who let us marry a wife?

The groom must say a few words before going out.

For the groom, your parents took the eldest daughter away from you. Daughter is the darling of others. Can parents rest assured if they don't say a few words to make their father feel practical before going out? Therefore, before leaving the bride's house, the groom must say something like: Mom and Dad, please rest assured! I will be kind to her, responsible for her, we will be happy, and so on. We should give our parents a sense of security through words, otherwise they will be disappointed.

Generally speaking, parents will give the bride 1 two apples before her daughter goes out. She gave it to 1 and the bride took it. If she gives two apples, the bride and groom will have one, which means wishing her daughter or daughter and son-in-law a safe life. Newcomers should always hold this apple and make sure they get it to the groom's house.

The bride's aunt didn't attend the farewell.

According to the traditional custom, the bride's aunt can't attend seeing the bride off, and her pronunciation is the same as guessing "doubt", so we should avoid suspicion. The bride's aunt doesn't have to go to the hotel with the flower convoy. If she takes the float to the hotel, it is equivalent to seeing her off. Generally, on the wedding day, the bride's aunt doesn't go to the bride's house at all and goes directly to the hotel. The bride's parents don't go with the flower convoy either. After the bride leaves, they will take a special bus to the wedding venue.

The question of holding the bride

If the relatives and friends of the bride's family boo and let the groom carry the bride downstairs, the groom must consider the following questions:

(1) You can't leave the bride halfway.

Because once the groom picks up the bride, it symbolizes a kind of responsibility and can't give up halfway. This requires that the parking position of the float downstairs should not be too far away from the bride's house, otherwise the groom may have to walk hundreds of meters with the bride in his arms, and his physical strength will definitely be too much.

(2) The groom should consider the length of the bride's wedding dress.

If the wedding dress mops the floor in the process of going downstairs, the groom may accidentally step on the wedding dress, and the result of stepping on the wedding dress may cause two people to trip down the stairs at the same time.

(3) When going downstairs, there may be a problem that the bride is not there.

Some grooms, regardless, picked up the bride and went downstairs. At this time, photographers and cameramen who go downstairs before couples will take pictures from the downstairs according to the needs of the lens, and the lens will definitely take a glance, especially in summer. Therefore, the groom should also consider the exposure when holding the bride.

(4) It is best to hold the bride with her head, right foot and left foot.

The groom should hold the bride with his head, right foot and left foot. That is, the bride's head is in the groom's right hand and the bride's feet are in the groom's left hand. Why? Because the groom's corsage is worn on his left chest. If the bride's head is on her left breast, it will touch the corsage on the groom's left breast invisibly, and it will be broken accidentally when holding the bride. At the wedding scene, we often meet the groom walking around with a "flower pole". I asked the groom, "Did you hug the bride again today?" The grooms were surprised and asked me how I knew. I smiled and said to them, "I know it from your corsage." Where are the flowers on your corsage? " Only then did I realize that I was wandering around with a flower pole They panicked and asked me what to do. I can only make them another corsage or give them mine.

Assign someone to arrange for relatives and friends to get on the bus.

The groom's family or the bride's family must arrange someone to manage relatives and friends to get on the bus. If there is no personnel management, there will be the following situations: relatives and friends go to the motorcade to pick up relatives, instead of rushing to get on the bus, they discuss who will get on which bus. Some advocate arranging vehicles according to the distance between relatives and friends, some arrange vehicles according to the standard of one car per family, some are willing to be with people who can talk to themselves, some have already got on the bus, and when they see familiar people getting on another car, they quickly get off to find their companions. The scene is hectic. If this phenomenon is not managed, it may take 7-8 minutes. The time to pick up relatives is precious. Don't waste time getting on the bus. So be sure to send someone to manage the boarding order. The best manager is the dispatcher of the groom's family who is in charge of the team. At this time, his task is to arrange for her family to get on the bus. No matter who gets on the bus, as long as it is full, we must tell the people on the bus not to get off again, and all our relatives and friends.

Traditional bride selection process II. What is the wedding selection process?

1. On the wedding day, the groom should set out to meet the bride at the selected auspicious time and go home at the selected auspicious time. When the groom goes to the woman's house, there is a pleasing link after seeing the woman's family. In other words, the bride's bridesmaids will deliberately embarrass the groom, create some problems or complete some games, and then they can enter the bride's room after passing or passing the customs, but most of the flattering links end with red envelopes.

When going out, the bride should say goodbye to her parents. At this time, the groom can bow. When the bride goes out, she needs some elderly women with high blessings to guide her to the wedding car with bamboo plaques or red umbrellas. This is to hope that the bride can be as happy as this older woman. Bamboo plaque or red umbrella can be put in the car or trunk after use.

Before the bride gets on the wedding car, a little boy will give the bride a fan. At this time, the bride will give the boy a red envelope as a thank you. When the car is ready to start, the bride will throw the fan out of the car, which means that the bride's bad temper should be thrown away. You are not allowed to take it to your husband's house. The boy will pick it up and give it back to her mother's family. They will thank her with red envelopes.

After the bride gets on the bus, the wedding team is ready to leave. At this time, the family, relatives and friends of the man can't say goodbye to the family of the woman. After the bus comes out, set off firecrackers along the road until you return to the groom's house. When you get to the groom's house, you have to cross the brazier with thick waist before you can enter the door.

Second, who should pick up the bride

Traditionally, people who get married and pick up the bride are relatives and friends of the man's family, usually uncles and the like. Some grooms invite their buddies to be the best men to pick up the bride at the woman's house, and they are basically men, and few women follow them to pick up the bride. Generally, no women will attend the wedding.

And the number of wedding banquets is also particular. No matter how many people go to the wedding banquet, the number of people at the wedding banquet must be even when they come back, which is also a habit of marriage customs. As the saying goes, yes-men are taboo in marriage.

Traditional bride selection process 3 i. Bride selection process for married men.

The process of getting married and picking up the bride is pleasant.

After meeting the bride's family, the groom will hold a bouquet in the room for the bride to get married. At this time, the bridesmaid of the bride should deliberately stop the groom, but the conditions require the groom to agree, usually with a red envelope gift.

The process of getting married and picking up the bride II. say goodbye to

Before getting on the wedding car, the bride should say goodbye to her parents, and the groom can just bow and salute.

Getting married and picking up the bride process three. associate

When leaving the bride's house, the bride should be escorted to the limousine by a well-blessed female elder with a bamboo plaque or a red umbrella, because the bride can't see the sunshine overhead, and the other party hopes to live a happy life like this female elder, which represents the opening of branches and leaves. Sprinkle red beans, mung beans and rice on the top of the umbrella to ward off evil spirits.

Process 4 of getting married and picking up the bride. Gift cart

Prepare a bamboo plaque and paste the word "Xi" on it. Bamboo cards can be placed on the back cover of luxury cars.

The process of getting married and picking up the bride V. Respect the model

Before the bride got on the wedding car, a little boy gave the bride a fan and put it on the tea tray without authorization. The bride returned a red envelope as a token of her gratitude.

The process of getting married and picking up the bride VI. Kabhi Alvida Naa Kehna

When the bride gets on the wedding car and everyone leaves her home, don't say goodbye to her family.

The process of getting married and picking up the bride VII. Burning a gun

When the wedding car starts and leaves the woman's house, the woman's house will set off firecrackers.

What are the details of picking up the bride?

1, knocking at the top door, in the traditional wedding custom in China, means "the nature of the groom."

Don't rush to see the bride when you enter your family. Say hello to mom and dad first.

Knock on the door and enter the bride's boudoir (there will be a "lock the door game" in the club at this time).

Give the bride a bunch of flowers and put a corsage on her.

5. Organize new people to offer tea to the woman's parents.

6. The groom puts on new shoes for the bride and carries her on the bus.

7. Instruct someone to organize relatives and friends to get on the bus.

Who can't pick up the bride?

1, an empty-handed man

People who pick up the bride can't be empty-handed, so when they go, everyone is responsible for helping the groom get presents, which also reflects the sincerity of the man's family.

2. Divorcees

Divorced people can't take the bride, because most people think such people are unlucky. Everything should be perfect for such a happy event as marriage, and the married life of the person who takes the bride should be perfect, which is a beautiful moral.

3. People who have nothing to do.

If people involved in white affairs recently are not suitable for this occasion, because marriage is a happy event, it is best not to collide with red and white affairs, otherwise it will bring bad luck to the couple.