In Suzhou area, there are no strict rules about the custom of getting married and making the bed. Generally speaking, the man is usually responsible for making the bed, because the wedding room of the newlyweds is in the man's house, so the man will find some happy and blessed people to make the bed. These people are usually the elders of the man's relatives or his parents, if the man's family situation is good.

As for the quilt, the traditional custom does not clearly stipulate whether the man or the woman should buy it. It is usually prepared by the bride and groom themselves or provided by the woman's family, depending on the family situation and local customs of both parties. In some areas, wedding quilts need to be prepared by the woman's family. Red eggs, peanuts, lotus seeds, longan and other items symbolizing good luck and fertility should be placed in the quilt.

However, in modern society, many young people no longer follow the rules of the older generation. They are more inclined to make their own beds or complete the task of making their beds with friends, and everything is decided according to their own ideas and preferences. In short, making a bed for marriage and buying a quilt should be decided according to the actual situation and local customs.