When men and women have been in contact for a period of time, the matchmaker will take the girl and father-in-law to visit the man's home in a small area, in fact, in order to better interview the man's family situation-for example, how many houses are there? Field geometry? Is life comfortable? Is sister-in-law harmonious? Do men have development potential? Is your mother gentle and considerate? Understand the engagement customs in Shaanxi, xi 'an engagement customs have these, and Fufeng engagement customs are all like this. It is better to know it than to see it with your own eyes. The old father-in-law will check the girl first.

Buy clothes. If you successfully pass the meeting pass, the eight-character pass and the visiting pass, you will get married halfway. Knowing the engagement custom in Shaanxi, xi 'an has these, and Fufeng's engagement custom is like this. The following spell is hard power. Pulling clothes is also called "four-color ceremony" in advance. Relatives of boys and girls, together with the matchmaker, promised in advance to prepare four-body clothes for the woman all year round. In the future, both sides have their own free aunts to accompany them, and they have pulled enough fabrics in the "noisy" quarrel to prepare the quilt cover. All these items were originally stored by humans. Visit the man's house together to confirm the marriage. At about ten o'clock in the morning, the guests go to the man's house to have a meal or whistle, and then visit the man's house property. Men should display the "four-color ceremony" and quilt cover professionally. Guests will judge the man's appearance and family background, and then strictly control the woman. At the end of the tasting, the staple food-nine plates, eight bowls and thirteen flowers-was ready, and the customers had a sumptuous meal. Later, the guests brought back the "four-color gift", quilt cover and 20 kg of intimate cotton for women. The woman didn't go with everyone herself, so she was sent by the target on foot when it was late. It often gives two people many opportunities to communicate independently.

If a man has the intention of getting married, he will negotiate the bride price with the woman's family according to the matchmaker's statement. The woman's family should know in detail the preparations of her wife's major events in advance, understand the engagement customs in Shaanxi, xi 'an and Fufeng, and then discuss the actual wedding date, the round-trip route on the wedding day, the total number of big red envelopes and the norms of her wedding banquet. Until the woman's family is satisfied with everything, the man can naturally kill the pig and ask the chef to plan the wedding reception.