The folk customs in Siyang are not very good, especially in the countryside. Of course, there are also customs and habits in various places. When engaged, it is common and normal for a woman to ask her husband for a gift. Compared with the south, the cost of engagement is a piece of cake.

Generally speaking, it is appropriate for a man in Siyang to spend 60 thousand yuan on engagement. First consider giving his girlfriend three kinds of gold, gold earrings, gold necklaces and gold rings. Secondly, buy some clothes for my girlfriend, some alcohol and tobacco for my parents-in-law, plus several tables of banquets and deposits. And buy gifts for my girlfriend's main relatives, and so on.

Whether the woman will invite the man back depends on how the man behaves and how he does things. At the same time, the quality of the woman should also be considered. What ultimately determines is the emotional foundation of both parties.