On my own side, the man stayed in a hotel, then came to my house to pick me up and went to the hotel to hold a banquet. The new house is also a hotel room.
On the other side of the man's house, I stayed in a hotel. In the morning, he set out from home to meet me at the hotel. Then go to his new home. Then go to the wedding hotel for a wedding reception.
In fact, marrying a daughter-in-law and a daughter requires a confession to parents. It's not easy for your parents to raise you so big. Of course they want to see their daughter get married beautifully. The man's parents may also want to give an explanation to relatives and friends.
Do what you want, as long as you are not afraid of trouble and hard work. Anyway, this is the only time in my life. Don't leave regrets.