For this marriage, Zhang Lu and his parents don't know how many times they put up with it. This time, Zhang Lu couldn't stand it any longer. He growled, "It's not over until it's over. I'll send you back now. " In this way, a beautiful wedding had to end in a farce.
Zhang Lu is a technician in a company. Since graduation, Zhang Lu has been focusing on work, and personal problems have been delayed. After his job was stable, there were no suitable girls around him. Don't be forced, he can only be forced by his parents to go on a blind date. In recent years, Zhang Lu has met several people one after another, but it didn't take long to talk. Finally, Zhang Lu got to know the girl with the help of a distant cousin.
At first, the girl didn't like Zhang Lu either. She thinks that Zhang Luren looks ordinary and has a dull personality, and is ready to refuse this marriage. But the girl's parents learned from the matchmaker that Zhang Lu's job is very promising and the salary is not low. Under the guidance of the matchmaker, the girl agreed to continue to associate with Zhang Lu. They have been dating for more than half a year, and their parents are urging them to get married. When talking about marriage, the woman rudely asked for a bride price of 200 thousand.
Hearing this bride price, Zhang Lu backed out because there was too much money. However, Zhang Lu's parents didn't give up. They asked the matchmaker to discuss it again. Finally, the woman asked for this 200,000 bride price, and she didn't want any other money. Zhang Lu's parents agreed to the marriage. Zhang Lu's parents spent a lot of time and borrowed a lot of money from relatives in order to get enough 200,000 bride price.
After their wedding date was set, Zhang Lu and his parents began to prepare for the wedding. On that day, the girl called Zhang Lu and said that she wanted a diamond ring instead of three gold medals. The brand of diamond ring may not be a famous brand, as long as it is a diamond ring. Originally, the 200,000 bride price included three gold medals, and Zhang Lu had to spend extra money, but Zhang Lu agreed. After all, the 200,000 bride price is taken, which is not bad for thousands of dollars. However, this incident has always made Zhang Lu uncomfortable.
Soon the wedding day arrived, and Zhang Lu took the bride from the woman's house to the wedding scene. The wedding was going on in an orderly way under the auspices of the master of ceremonies. There is a very important etiquette at the wedding, that is, the bride offers tea to her future in-laws and changes her mind. As in-laws, she will also give red envelopes symbolically, and there is no requirement for the amount.
According to the procedure, Zhang Lu and the bride came to their parents with tea. At this time, the father took out the prepared red envelopes, and the bride took them out and counted them. At this time, the MC whispered to remind the bride to offer tea. At this time, the bride said with some displeasure, "What kind of tea did you offer? I gave 5000 red envelopes for tea, which was too little. This tea is disrespectful. " After that, he threw the teacup on the ground, and then rushed to the road and said, "There are too few red envelopes for this tea. At least 10000. Get another 5 thousand quickly. Otherwise, this marriage will not be concluded. "
The aggressive appearance of the bride ignited a raging fire in Zhang Lu's heart. He suppressed his anger and began to persuade the bride, but the bride didn't listen at all and her words became more and more ugly. Zhang Lu can't stand it. He growled at the bride: "This marriage will not end until it ends. I'll send you back now. " Then she took the bride outside, and finally the wedding ended in a farce.
After reading Zhang Lu's story, Uncle Qiang really didn't know what to say. Uncle Qiang has always stressed that when talking about marriage, don't be too arrogant. You can't take love as a cover and ask the man unreasonable conditions just because you are a girl. Since two people feel that they want to tie the knot, they should know how to think of each other, understand each other, make appropriate concessions, and win the respect of each other and their families with their generosity.
The bride's behavior in the article is simply too much to understand. In her eyes, there is only money, nothing else. How can such a woman be happy? For Zhang Lu's practice, Uncle Qiang thinks that a normal man can't stand it, but Uncle Qiang regrets a good marriage and the result is like this.
Finally, Uncle Qiang wants to tell everyone that if both parties in marriage don't understand each other, only consider themselves and only care about immediate interests, then marriage is meaningless. Even if they get married, such a married life will not last long. what do you think?