Insight 1:

My wife, my love

I am a very traditional person, and how much love I have passed by is different from national customs. Therefore, after working for more than ten years, I am still alone. Many relatives and friends are worried about me, and gradually, I seldom go home, for fear of my parents nagging. When people talk about things between men and women, they will walk away silently and be afraid to talk about me.

One day, I was busy in the office. Suddenly, an old classmate I haven't contacted for years called me. The focus is, of course, my personal problems. He told me that he had a distant relative's girl who taught in a middle school after graduating from college last year and left me a phone number. My heart was broken and I saw many dawns. However, considering their own conditions, the age and diploma are far apart. So I dare not contact her rashly, but look for books about the county and rural areas where she is located, and study them in combination with her major. When I feel almost there, I dare to call her. The first call didn't last long, but because I made a good package, I left her a good first impression. After calling several times in a row, I wrote a letter to her, talking about my teaching, life and work experience in recent years. Our phone calls are from once every two days to twice a day, and letters are once a week. At that time, there were only BP machines, not mobile phones. A month later, the telephone bill in the office actually doubled. I quietly went to the telecom company to find out and handed over my phone bill to the cashier. After the leader knew it, he said with concern that it would be bad for you to pay the phone bill in the future, but you should succeed. One side is support, the other side is gravity, and I am in a state of pleasure.

I told her, "Even if the seas run dry and the rocks crumble, my love for you will not change." So she is willing to be my wife.

Some people say, "Daughter-in-law is easy to coax." There is indeed a necessary reason to know and love your wife, but the first condition is to coax them with your own heart. I recently read this sentence: "Boys who don't want to get married and fall in love with girls are hooligans." If you don't treat girls sincerely, boys will be classified as "hooligans". I raised my hand to show my agreement. But boys still have to be sincere, sincere and responsible in packaging themselves. If you contact your wife for the first time and don't make full preparations and package yourself, it may be another ending.

My wife and I have known each other for a short time, and the organization asked me to learn about it full-time for two and a half years. I hesitated. My wife encouraged me: "No, you go, I'll wait for you." It was her encouragement that made me feel at ease. After fully understanding, I went back to work in my original unit, and most of my former colleagues were promoted. I was a little emotional, and she enlightened me. People can't float in the sky all their lives, so accept it. I can be transferred from other counties to accompany you, that's enough. This is the joy of our life. After listening to my wife's words, I was suddenly enlightened, and I was no longer looking at flowers in the fog.

I love graffiti in my spare time, and I was taken fancy to by my unit for a while. Let me follow my class for a while. But I think it's almost time for no doubt. When I come back from the village, my wife and children will revolve around my knees. In my spare time, I will read books with my son and walk with my wife. Three meals a day are normalized. I am very encouraged. I have to knock on the keyboard and add a book to my son. That's enough. I don't want to leave them again. My wife saw my mind and read a philosopher's words: "My skin is old, but my heart is still young." I didn't hesitate. I packed my things and reported to the unit on time. In order to live up to my wife's expectations, I seized the opportunity seriously, entered the leading role in time, and devoted myself to my work. I wrote 10 materials and 1 research articles in a month, of which 1 materials and 1 research articles were adopted by national newspapers and praised by leaders. The leader helped me with the formal transfer procedures. I was born as a teacher, and I walked from a small mountain village with a smoky kitchen to today one step at a time. My wife gave her a grateful heart that always shines and gave it to those who helped us. Open-minded wife, her spiritual source is like a trickle, always moistening me. (article reading network: three smells)

A little, I lost a lot before, and almost crushed me. If the wife doesn't understand, our relationship will come to an abrupt end. This is my sixth year of work. A distant uncle wants to buy a car, and the money is not enough. He asked me to guarantee a loan from the credit union. Two years later, the car broke down and owed a lot of repair fees. The court used his broken car as collateral. Because he and I were not in the same place, I never knew about the accident. When the credit union called me to look for him, he had left with his family and never heard from him again. I had to bite the bullet and pay the money. My wife didn't yell at me hysterically or blame me when she knew what happened to me. After a long silence, she said slowly, "Make it clear, how much is left, and have a plan." I feel guilty about my life when I think of my wife's tolerance and her suffering from me for that stupid account.

My wife has a higher diploma than me. Every time she doodles, she always shows it to her. In the long run, she will be my first reader. She will weigh her words and make valuable suggestions. Look at this battle, it is really "two sentences for three years, one song and two tears; If you don't appreciate your confidant, you will return to the mountain.

My wife has both the beauty of Miao women and the femininity of female intellectuals, that is, the girl who broke through the secular fetters and boldly walked out of the mountains, and never used the red rooster to turn around her head (according to Miao custom, a new wife should turn the red rooster clockwise and counterclockwise three times before entering the door, saying a spell to show that husband and wife should unite, respect the old and love the young, and be happy and healthy), giving me every minute of pleasure. She never takes sides with my relatives. When the mother died, she walked in front of Lusheng teacher with a torch to guide her (Miao custom requires the eldest son and daughter-in-law to take her out of the village with a torch when the old man died). Every winter, she knits a sweater for her father. I want to shout: "Hold your hand and grow old with your son."

My dear wife, with you, I have the courage to overcome one difficulty after another; With you, I have the courage to go through one hurdle after another; With you, my life will be full of flowers. I want to love you and work with you to build a harmonious and healthy perfect home. At the same time, I also want to join you in wishing every couple in the world kindness, friendship and harmony. (Hemingway)

Insight 2:

I have my wife and you are my wife.

I grew up in an ordinary family and made brothers and sisters after I went to college. We have been friends for five or six years. He gave me everything and took me as the center. If there is an argument, no matter who is right or wrong, he will coax me, and he will be happy if I am happy. After graduation, we took part in jobs in different cities. Before I worked, I had little contact with society, and I didn't even think about the simple gap between the rich and the poor. My job is a high-end department store. I have to check the working status of employees every day, and I am also responsible for handling some requirements of department store suppliers and consumers' opinions. Due to work reasons, the people I contact and the places I go are relatively high-end. The salary is also quite good, but I often have to stand for 8 hours a day and walk around or even longer. My leg hurts when I come home from work every day, but I have to endure it all my life.

My younger brother and sister have just joined the work for one or two years, and their salary is very low. Not only can he not help me financially, but he often asks me to help him. The double burden worries me. I always complain to him that I have no money to get married and can't see our future. He always comforts me, and it will be fine in a couple of years. But I don't believe it. I feel very tired and depressed. After more than a year of struggle, I decided to break up. He tried to keep me, but he resolutely left. Actually, I was miserable, too, but I didn't tell him. I never drink to escape the pain. I tried to drink half a catty of 50-odd-degree white wine on an empty stomach. After being tortured by alcohol, I decided not to torture my mind and body at the same time.

I have been lovelorn for more than a year, and now I have met my husband. A company boss who is six years older than me. When I was a child, my family was poor and I tasted the world. In his early thirties, he finally achieved something. I knew from the beginning how different we were, and we didn't get along well. But because I thought it was not easy to meet an unmarried man with good economic conditions in this small city, I crustily skin of head and married him when I accidentally got pregnant after a year and a half of love.

Among many businessmen I know, he should be considered good. He doesn't smoke or drink, but only drinks a little when he is socializing. He doesn't gamble or brag. He is honest, responsible and helpful. His brothers and sisters around him all spoke highly of him. But I always feel that he is self-centered, rarely takes care of my feelings and doesn't know how to care about people. During the ten months of my pregnancy, he didn't walk with me. He goes to bed in the morning, goes to work in the afternoon and comes back at one or two in the evening.

I had dinner after work and walked home for an hour. I waited for hours in an empty house with a big belly. He never thought there was anything wrong with it. Even if I don't feel well, he will forget me and my discomfort as soon as he leaves home, and he won't think of saying hello to me when he comes home at night, because he has long forgotten it. I have always felt that he was born so careless, and I suppressed my dissatisfaction when * * * was invalid but caused disputes. During the holiday break, I sat alone in the park and saw a family playing in the park with their children. I was really envious. I expect a family of three to go to the park, or go to my brother and sister's house, or watch TV at home and play with the children, but he said he was busy and had no time, so our life has always been so dull. At this time, the child was one and a half years old, but he never asked me and the child.

One day, in the park, I looked at a couple with their children across the street. It seems that the wife is going to have a baby, and the husband of the pregnant woman is sitting next to him, caring and attentive to him, so sweet. At this time, my leg suddenly hurt and my face was covered with sweat. I saw a man come over and help me take the child and me home. When I woke up, my husband came back and the child fell asleep. I saw some boxes of Maikangtong on the table. I thought my husband bought it, and I was a little excited. My husband said your brothers and sisters sent it to you. My brothers and sisters? I was thinking, yes, the man who just sent you back. I opened the box, and there was a note in it: "You are too tired because you don't work well. Be good to yourself. You have had vasculitis on your leg for a long time. I found it for you online. I heard that many people have used Maikangtong. The vasculitis in your leg has healed. Please remember to love yourself.

After reading this note, my tears have been spinning in my eyes. It turned out to be him. This is the pseudonym my boyfriend uses when writing. No wonder I look so familiar in the park. I didn't expect him to remember me for so many years. Now I understand, I missed it. It was my vanity that missed the person who had been kind to me all my life. Looking at the Maikangtong he gave me on the table, I thought from my heart, I must use it to cure the vasculitis I got after standing in the department store for many years! Because we have missed him, we can't miss the chance to cure Maikangtong again. ...

Two months later, my varicose veins healed, and one afternoon I took my children to the park. I don't know why, but I really want to see him again. I hope he will be there ... I played in the park with my children that afternoon, but I didn't see him. ...

Just as I was about to leave, a figure looking back appeared in front of me again. It was him. I don't know what to say. I just said thank you. He asked me how my leg was, and I said yes. He said, "How have you been these years?" "Not bad" "How about you?" "Just so-so ..." "Thank you for helping me, my leg has healed ..." "This is what I should do. I have my wife, you are my wife ... We are still good brothers and sisters ... as long as you live well ... "

Insight 3:

My wife

Gu yiren

My wife and I grew up in the same village (then called the production brigade), but we belonged to two production teams, two miles apart, so we didn't know each other since childhood.

At the age of 24, the production team arranged for me to be a rice transplanter. * * * There are four machines, and each machine is equipped with four transplanters. She is one of them. I think she is clever and dignified, beautiful and elegant. Write a poem in praise: the lotus steps move lightly like a willow, the phoenix instrument warbler is in the sky, the face is bright, and the orchid lily stays in the wind! I asked my father to help me find a match. My father asked someone to inquire about the situation and said, "The girl lost her father when she was young, and her mother was the chairman of the Poverty Association, and she was a cadre in party member in the production team. Our family's composition is not good, and it is a delusion to find her relatives! " After listening to this, I feel that my head has been poured with cold water, and my heart is heavy. Unexpectedly, good news came from Aunt Zhou and Sister Xu who asked for relatives through the media. My mother-in-law took a fancy to my "son-in-law" and brought a two-inch "small photo" of her wife. I am so excited that I am elated, relaxed and happy, full of emotion and longing! So, on 1978, my wife and I got married! Gave birth to two sons. Because my eldest son suffers from cerebral palsy, in order to earn more money to treat his son, my wife and I embarked on the road of "starting our own business" from 1984 and started our business in Huanglou Town for 30 years.

We used to run an electrical maintenance department, and then we had two houses facing the street, so now I run a hotel and my wife runs a clothing store.

My wife gets up at six o'clock every morning to open the door and closes at ten o'clock in the evening. She ironed and mended clothes, which brought excellent service to the masses. Many customers say my wife: "It's nice to have a flat and straight face!" She never has a holiday break. When I met my relatives, brothers and sisters' wedding, she urged me to take my two sons to report the gift money first, and told her to "take a taxi" ten minutes before the banquet began. Before the party was over, my wife was anxious to go back to the store to do business. Because of this, our family has gone from poor to heavily in debt to a shop with 300 square meters of its own property in Huanglou Town at the moment. (article reading network: three smells)

The eldest son has suffered from "cerebral palsy" since he was a child and is inconvenient to move. Taking care of him depends on our personality as parents. When I was a child, my wife took time out of her busy schedule and pushed him to and from school. It took me six years to get my eldest son through primary school, rain or shine. Now he can operate and repair computers. The wife often comforts her eldest son and says, "Since my parents gave birth to you, our whole family has been prosperous until now, and you suffer alone. You alone bear the' suffering' and' negligence' of our family. You are the lucky star of our family and the baby of our parents! "

The youngest son has graduated from college and started working. His wife encouraged him to say, "Never mind the salary or the type of work, but you must work in a standardized company. You are the expectation of our whole family, so you must work hard! " As a result, the child worked hard in the post office and was named "Advanced Worker of Shanghai Postal System" in the first year. (classic lines)

However, his wife has changed from being young and beautiful to being full of white hair and wrinkles. She devoted all her youth and love to her family and society. In principle, the wife can enjoy it now! But she is still reluctant to eat and wear, and as always, she is frugal and hardworking. However, I am not stingy with the expenses of my two sons. I already have two desktop computers, and I gave my son money to buy two laptops. I have always been very supportive of my participation in social work. Seeing that I often go out, I bought a car of hundreds of thousands. When I want to donate money to help people in need, she always says the old saying: "It is the good relationship between the party and * * * that makes us rich. Donate more! People say that we are stingy. "

Sometimes, I will say to my wife in a complaining tone: "You can't bear to eat or use it, but you work hard to make money." What are the benefits of making this money? " The wife smiled and replied, "I earn more money for my son and my parents, so that you can help those who need help." How can you say that I am not good? " Her words and deeds made me warn myself: in this life, I must be right with my wife!

My wife is virtuous and hardworking, and she just wants to grow old in this life!