Marriage is a matter for two people, and whether or not to have a wedding is the second. Marriage is very important to talents. If you pay attention to the sense of ceremony brought by the wedding, you can certainly hold a grand wedding, but if you don't pay attention to these, it really doesn't matter whether the wedding is held or not.

You may not quite understand why some people don't have a wedding because of life events, and they have no sense of ceremony.

Marriage should have a sense of ceremony, but weddings don't.

It varies from person to person, and some people are very afraid of complexity. They don't like the same procedure at the wedding, don't like smirking at strangers from beginning to end, and don't like holding a wedding for the sake of the wedding. I remember a saying: wedding is an embarrassing large-scale private temple fair.

In the final analysis, the purpose of most people's weddings is to get their parents back the gifts they have given ... If it is purely their own will, how many people are willing to toss about this ceremony banquet? Very tired.

But it's too acceptable. So far, I have been trying to persuade relatives of both sides not to have a wedding.

I mentioned this point once before. A freeloader said that a boyfriend could get a wife without doing anything. I gave him a few dollars.

I am actually a person with a sense of ceremony. I once fantasized about some romantic scenes of weddings, but as I became stronger and cured more psychological problems, I began to realize that my desire for many romantic scenes was essentially the lack of love.

This matter is a matter of opinion, and everyone doesn't understand it, but it is true to me. The more unhealthy my previous relationship was, the more it drove me to recreate the romantic formula.

Regarding marriage, Huang in The Legend of the Condor Heroes said: "What parents' orders, what matchmakers' words, and what Jianghu rules are all nonsense!" China people used to be very liberated, and they didn't believe in heaven, land and fate. Now in the past twenty or thirty years, I feel that some people are slowly putting shackles around their necks, especially in the northwest, which is really sad.

I have read a short composition written by a female boxer, which roughly means that her best friend was originally an independent woman, but when she got married and held a wedding, watching her best friend numbly cooperate with the man's performance under the command of the host made her feel sick and felt that her best friend was no longer an independent woman. ...

Of course, then again, if there is really no wedding, she may feel that the man does not respect, value or respect the woman.

The wedding doesn't have to be too grand and grand, and it doesn't have to be bloated and obese for the sake of face. You should do what you can A slightly grand wedding is really expensive, time-consuming and energy-consuming. There are many things, which are complicated and tiring. Maybe young couples and two families can easily turn against each other and go their separate ways.