I'll tell you this slowly, it's more troublesome! First of all, the man should bring the so-called matchmaker, that is, the witness to the woman's house, and there will be witnesses to meet with you. Let's see if we are satisfied with each other. If we are satisfied with each other, we will roughly determine the engagement time and financial situation, such as the money for the banquet, who will pay the engagement red envelope and so on. After the decision, the bride price is money. For example, in our place, 8W ~ is not capped, like some small places, 1W~ ~, and then we will buy engagement rings. My husband and I got an engagement ring from my grandmother, and then my mother-in-law and father-in-law gave me a platinum necklace, "Ask me if you still don't understand!