Investigation on the attitude of naked marriage: 80% of men agree with 70% of women oppose it. Recently, at the New Year's Eve party, when friends were asking when Yan Ping and her boyfriend who had been in love for many years would get married, Yan Ping said happily, "We have been married for two months." Looking at her friend's surprised expression, Yan Ping said, "Who said that people must be invited to dinner when they get married? This is the popular marriage mode nowadays-naked marriage. " High housing prices, high professional competitiveness and high cost of living make young people embarrassed, and the social atmosphere of comparing with each other becomes the "inducement" of "marriage". The "post-80s" and the "naked marriage family" have abandoned the traditional concept: we want naked marriage, no house, no car, no wedding, no honeymoon trip, no wedding diamond ring, only a legally recognized engagement photo witnessed by both parents ... Xiao Dan, who works in Harbin, has been married naked for 4 years and still rents a house with her husband. Xiao Dan said: "If we wait until we have a house and a car before we get married, we may be over 30 years old." Four years ago, she met her boyfriend Liu Li, and they hit it off. When the relationship develops to talk about marriage, the marriage room becomes the primary problem. Liuli calculated an account. Buy a house of 200,000 yuan, decorate it of 50,000 yuan, prepare for the wedding 1 10,000 yuan, take a short honeymoon trip of 6,000 yuan and get married of at least 270,000 yuan. This is an astronomical figure for Liu Li's parents who live in the countryside and make a living by farming. Liu Li and Xiao Dan discussed that they should get married first and then buy a house when the economic conditions are good. Xiao Dan wanted to have a home for a long time, and she agreed. They spent 9 yuan to get a marriage certificate from the Civil Affairs Bureau, and the house rented by Liu Li became their wedding room. After four years of marriage, the two quarreled several times because of trivial matters in life, and they were flushed because they had no place to live, but they all laughed after the quarrel. Xiao Dan said that she valued character, not money. Is there no dispute that she has a room? Do you have to be happy if you have money? Now they are planning to live, and Qi Xin is trying to save the house together. This is called sharing weal and woe. Nowadays, "naked married families" like Xiao Dan have become commonplace. High housing prices, high professional competitiveness and high cost of living make young people embarrassed, and the social atmosphere of comparing with each other has become the "incentive" for "difficult marriage". For this reason, many "naked married people" born after 1980s abandoned traditional ideas and exchanged their efforts for a happy life. M: Naked marriage can help us relieve stress properly. Women: Real problems such as food, clothing, housing, childbirth and children's education make us not optimistic about naked marriage. According to online survey statistics, 80% of men are in favor of naked marriage, while 70% of women think naked marriage is absolutely not feasible. The reason is that before marriage, men value stress more and women value the future more. Men think that naked marriage can relieve the pressure appropriately, while women pay more attention to practical problems such as food, clothing, housing, transportation, childbirth and even children's education, so they are not optimistic about naked marriage. Netizen Yang Bing said that naked marriage should be the normal life of young people, and marriage means wedding dress, ceremony, house and car, which is the morbid understanding of happy life by the whole society. Rich material life does not mean happiness, just like dwelling in a humble abode. Who can say that seaweed is unhappy? Don't you have the right to get married without a house and a car? For marriage, mutual understanding, comfort, trust and support are most important. The key to happiness is not whether to get married naked, but whether the two can help each other, struggle and persist after marriage. Netizen chenchen expressed doubts about the reliability of naked marriage. Maybe 9 yuan can prove love, but who can guarantee that 9 yuan love is indestructible? Sometimes I envy the determination and courage of those "naked married people", but if I really like them, I can't get through that hurdle. Netizen panda bluntly said: "Naked marriage is just a good wish. When cruel reality collides with good wishes, will happiness still exist? " Calculate carefully, rice, oil, water, electricity, clothes, shoes and hats, entertainment, life will make you feel at a loss, at least you have to have a house. Is it true that my wife is pregnant and has to look for a house with a big belly? A thin marriage certificate can't bear the pressure of real life in the money age. "With the helplessness of reality and the breakthrough of traditional concepts," naked marriage "represents the independence and sense of responsibility of modern young people. Experts admit that practical realism is worth promoting. On the largest dating website in China, nearly 1,000 members find suitable people through the Internet every day and start to consider getting married. Ms. Gong, the person in charge of the website, believes that there are also some naked marriages in online marriages. On the one hand, this is a slightly helpless choice made by young people in the face of real life pressure; On the other hand, it also represents a new generation of "post-80 s" independent marriage concept and lifestyle, which represents a kind of progress. Limited economic conditions and great pressure on life are the direct reasons why many young people choose naked marriage. Ms. Gong said that taking wedding photos, buying wedding rings, holding wedding banquets, honeymoon trips and getting married are not small expenses for many young people. This is really a great financial burden for young people who just work and are unwilling to rely too much on their parents. At the same time, high housing prices, difficult employment and high cost of living also make young people more cautious in spending money. Choosing naked marriage is a bit reluctant. Instead of saving money to get married, they prefer to get married first and then fight together. Naked marriage is not only helpless, but also a breakthrough of the new generation of "post-80 s" youth to the traditional concept, representing the independence and sense of responsibility of modern young people. Ms Gong said: "From the feudal traditional marriage arrangement in China, to the free love of modern youth, and now to the independent marriage of young people, it proves that society is progressing. "Traditionally, parents should arrange marriages for their children. However, in the current situation of high housing prices and high cost of living, many families in China even took out three generations' savings to buy houses and get married for their children. Today's "post-80s" take the initiative to shoulder this burden. In fact, they are a more independent and responsible generation. Therefore, naked marriage is a realistic attitude. Compared with the previous luxury, this realistic marriage attitude and marriage form is worth promoting. Of course, although the times are progressing and the forms of marriage are changing, the basic secret of a happy marriage has never changed, and there is no shortage of emotion and material in marriage life. The form of marriage may not be important, but in the long-term marriage life, both men and women need to work together and keep pace, so as to keep the marriage fresh, create value for the society and reap their own happy life.