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I was in love with my boyfriend for a year and was ready to get married, but the marriage died. What should I do?
My name is Lynn Yang. Last March, I entered the sales department of a company as an intern. The elder brother who took me to work at that time was my ex-boyfriend Hua Feng. Looking back now, I really feel naive and naive.

Huafeng is the deputy manager of our department. I just entered the company, and he usually familiarized me with the business. He is my leader, which makes me admire him. In addition, he is resolute and clean in his work, and always gives me some advice when I encounter difficulties in my work, which makes me feel foggy and deepens my affection for him.

I don't know if I was brave or stupid. I think if you like someone, you should speak out boldly, so I like him and never hide anything. I will beg my colleague to change shifts with me just to work overtime with him; I will take the initiative to bring him breakfast and give him gifts. Although the times are very open now, there is nothing to be ashamed of, but in real life, most girls still don't like people like me, which is almost known to the whole company. Maybe he was attracted by my frankness. After knowing each other for two months, we established a relationship.

Actually, think about it carefully. How much can I know about him in two months? I only know that he is eight years older than me and has worked hard in this city for ten years, but I am still completely in love. My friends say I look like an invisible man. I am really a man who breaks his word. I like to say whatever I want, so I have almost no reservations about him. But he always seems to have something to say to me, which sometimes makes me feel at arm's length. However, I used to think that his character was so much.

Because I chased him, I caught him. I don't know how happy I am or how scared I am. I am always afraid that what I do will make him dissatisfied and make him hate me. No matter what happens, I always follow his preferences first, and gradually, everything he likes becomes something I like. Some friends laugh at me for being stupid and acting like a vassal in love, but I still don't know how happy I am. We can be together.

After a year of love, he suddenly proposed to me. I was surprised and happy, and I quickly agreed. We went shopping together that day to see some wedding supplies, but I happened to see a pair of figures in the mall that day, which made my wedding smoke go out. Originally, Hua Feng and I were looking at silk quilts for marriage, and we were all ready to pay for them. The picture of a woman holding a child walking outside the shop window successfully made Hua Feng rush out. Looking at the way Huafeng looked at that woman, I knew everything was not simple.

That woman is his ex-wife. They divorced on impulse two years ago, but at that time he didn't know that his wife was pregnant and the child was Hua Feng's daughter.

As soon as this happened, all preparations for the wedding stopped. I didn't dare to see him for more than a week, and he didn't come to see me. Finally, on the first 15 day of this incident, he came to me and said he was sorry. He said they were going to remarry. I cried and asked him, what are we? He said that he had been immersed in grief since the divorce, and my appearance gave him new excitement. He was just attracted to me for a while. Hearing this, I slapped him hard, which is the only time I have been cruel to him in a year.

After breaking up, I remembered what my friend once said to me, and I really realized that I was really a vassal in love. After such a period of emotional twists and turns, I have matured a little. I think, in love, maybe we should be vassals of each other, and people like me are doomed to be unfortunate.