It is said through the grapevine that Prince William and Princess Kate almost broke up some time after their engagement, but Princess Kate's mother came forward to help them through this hurdle (because Prince William liked the barbecue cooked by Princess Kate's mother), and they finally got married smoothly.
But I think if they don't have a solid emotional foundation, no matter who comes forward, see the story of Princess Diana and Prince Charles for details.
Therefore, I believe that you and your fiance still have feelings, otherwise you wouldn't want to marry him. Only in the cold war, you may have the idea that whoever admits his mistake first will lose, and you will be in a passive state in your later marriage.
But I don't think it's a big deal to admit mistakes. Is face more important than your love? Girls don't have to wait for a boy to coax them, and don't feel that they are admitting their mistakes. Ask this boy to marry you, and he won't value you. I think if your fiance is a boy who is not sensible enough, even if you are more mature than him, you should be more tolerant of his love for you.
Now is really not the time to be impulsive, someone has to stand up and make peace with each other first. I believe you are both at fault. Maybe you were right before the cold war, but as long as there is a cold war, no one can escape responsibility. In addition, I think it is more important to solve the contradiction that led to the cold war between you than to blame each other for their mistakes. In fact, you should be glad that this cold war happened before you got married, because if this contradiction is too big to be solved, you can save a lot of formalities and say goodbye to each other directly.
My friend's boyfriend is a boy who is not very sensible. After quarreling, he always can't save face and make up with my friend. But because we have feelings for each other, my friend is unwilling to give up this relationship because of some minor contradictions. Even if her boyfriend is really so handsome, she won't. So every time, my friends take the initiative to talk to him first, and then bring up the problem to solve ......................................................... together. However, although their feelings are stumbling, they have been together for more than two years, and they feel that they will go further.
It's really a headache to meet Jiao Jiao's fiance, but if he loves you and you love him, what does it matter if you leave first? Better than missing your marriage in anger, right?