In the tradition of Putian, Fujian, when a man goes to a woman's house with a dowry, he usually gives her parents a certain gift. This kind of gift is usually cash, and the amount has a certain auspicious meaning, such as 2000 yuan, 6000 yuan, 8000 yuan and so on. In addition, there is a special number combination, such as10,001yuan, which means "choose one as you like". The choice of these amounts reflects good wishes for the future and respect for both families. If family conditions permit, the amount of red envelopes can be higher to show sincerity; However, if the conditions are limited, the amount of red envelopes should be within an acceptable range, which should not only reflect politeness, but also avoid being stingy. At the same time, the parents of the man can also prepare other expensive gifts as a return gift according to the custom, and continue to enhance the friendship between the two sides.