Prenuptial ceremony and formal wedding are the main parts of the wedding, and they are also the main procedures of the Six Rites. China people think that red is a festive color, symbolizing auspicious and warm atmosphere, so the wedding in China is mainly red. Prenuptial ceremony refers to engagement. First, the matchmaker needs to issue a letter of appointment. When engaged, the man and the woman exchange gift lists and documents written by the bride. Is this what we always say? Three books. Six gifts? Including recruiting, asking names, Najib, recruiting, invitation date, welcome. Six rites cover the whole process of marriage. Nacai? Of a man proposing to a woman. Ask the name? It means that the man asks the woman's birthday through the matchmaker. ? Najib? And then what? Accept the levy? It refers to preparing dowry and dowry, reaching a preliminary agreement on marriage and holding an engagement ceremony.
There are also many taboos about the time of marriage, so check the date of birth of men and women. We should also avoid certain months, such as March, June and July of the lunar calendar. After installing a new bed, the man should find an underage boy to sleep with, or he will commit a big taboo, which is considered as a sign of disaster. In some places, we have to get married in tears because. It is difficult for a daughter to see her parents again after marriage. Every time I go back to my mother's house, I have to go through the consent of my husband's family. There is also a saying that the more the bride cries, the more prosperous her husband's family is.
On the wedding day, you should take a sedan chair to greet the bride, and you can't look back under any circumstances. The worship ceremony was mainly presided over by the master of ceremonies. One is to worship heaven and earth to show respect for the gods, and the other is to worship Gaotang to show filial piety to parents. The couple's worship of Lai implies their love for each other. On the third day after marriage, the bride, accompanied by her husband, will go to her parents' home with gifts and then go home to visit relatives.