This sentence makes most netizens have another view of dialogue. They feel that the wise men of the past have become so similar, just like a father who doesn't like young people. Similarly, people are helpless, want to refute and rebel. Is that really the case? It is easy for parents to choose a wife, and it is also easy to get three big brick houses. The cost of living will not be high, and they can make great efforts without control. Have your own future life. If you want to buy a house, the house price is still high. I want to buy a car, and I still have so little money in my pocket. It is easy to be deceived if you want to find a woman you like. So some people say that it is really difficult for young people to get married now. It's like having a dog and living a happy life. According to the consumption level at that time, parents' living conditions and economic accumulation, parents' marriage will consume their savings for many years, and most people will choose to continue saving. Their own. There was a kind person in the previous department. He is in his forties.
Speaking of young people nowadays, they are so happy. They had a house, a car and a deposit, and they didn't want it at that time. I was curious and asked them about it. After the wedding, the wedding gift of 6 100 almost reached the bottom of the family, but there was no wedding room yet. After marriage, they will have a new house. So he borrowed money to build a house and borrow money, and finally got three big brick houses in turn. The newly married old man and his wife owe thousands of dollars. Maybe some people don't understand why there are only a few thousand dollars in debt, so they only pay attention to a few thousand dollars. Then he said that his salary was over 200. This is easy to understand, because people's income was usually not high at that time, and money was naturally very precious. For an ordinary person, thousands of dollars is already a lot of money. Compared with my distant cousin's marriage, I think young people nowadays are really happy. Cousin's dowry is 10 million yuan, and sister-in-law's dowry is as much as cousin's.
My cousin has prepared a house in his hometown and a house in the city. My cousin is the only one. The family considered almost all the roads for him. But in this way, my cousin is still dissatisfied with his marriage and feels tired and difficult. Finally, a senior said: These two people have struggled for more than 20 years and bought another house in this city. A happy face. Obviously, their happiness is definitely not an order of magnitude. My cousin is married and has a car and a house. His deposit exceeds 200,000 yuan. Before buying the first house, the seniors worked hard for more than 20 years. Of course, my cousin will be happier, but it's not. Many young people have low happiness and are unwilling to get married. I think most of the reasons are because they are used to watching big scenes and have many unrealistic fantasies. Parents have some money and want their children to see the world, so more and more young people go to the new world and go to their parents. After living in this city for a period of time (during college), you will realize how backward the place where you were born is.
Many young people also have some unrealistic feelings. They think they are from there. This reminds me of Zhang Xuefeng who escaped. Such a celebrity cannot guarantee that his life in Beijing will be smooth sailing. What is the distance between us ordinary young people and Zhang Xuefeng? The huge gap between reality and feeling, inner hesitation and the blow of reality make young people less and less confident. Coupled with the influence of gifts and house prices, in addition to these objective factors, I think young people also have the ability to resist pressure. Faced with the pressure of not being able to eat, the ancestors can also shoulder their responsibilities. Young people live extremely in school, and there are many. Once a master student jumped into the river. I don't know if you remember. I feel that I got such a degree. I'm sorry that I didn't do anything and I'm sorry for my efforts. Nowadays, young people are under great pressure, but I don't think it's a matter of whether the pressure is small or not, but the pressure they face and the time when the pressure appears. These pressures seem too sudden.