This is not a very trendy vocabulary, but a vocabulary that everyone knows since ancient times, but few people will say it, especially between husband and wife.

As husband and wife, they usually don't have this sense of distance, but as a party, they hope that the other party must have this sense of distance, not to themselves, but to other friends of the opposite sex around them.

It is true that the most essential meaning of husband and wife's decision to be together is to possess each other. This is not selfishness, but love. As husband and wife, if you don't want to possess each other, any opposite sex can be with your partner. What is marriage? Equivalent to child's play.

However, many married men and women are not aware of this. They always feel that what has happened has happened after they have known friends of the opposite sex for so many years. So now it's just a simple friendship, so they still keep their distance from each other regardless of contact, have no sense of distance, and don't even care about each other's ideas.

However, many seemingly "pure friendship" relationships, you think pure, but the other party may not think so. You think that nothing will happen, but when the other party is about to happen, everything will be too late, and even your marriage may end.

An Hui grew up with her childhood sweetheart Hui Luo. It is said that they got engaged when they were young, but they didn't get together when they grew up.

An Hui and Cheng Yang met by chance at a blind date, but they didn't like each other at that time, that is, they met. However, it didn't take long for familiar friends to introduce each other, only to find that the other party turned out to be a blind date not long ago. After listening to this, my friends all felt that this fate was wonderful, laughing that it was a "thousand-mile marriage" and it was a destined couple.

This time, perhaps the atmosphere is lighter and the chat is more harmonious. Anhui and Chengyang both showed their true side and had a very pleasant chat. The purpose of the friend introduction is also very tacit. Since I feel very good, I naturally want to go further and formally become a boyfriend and girlfriend.

Cheng Yang is very satisfied with Hui. Neither the feeling nor the other family is too high nor too low, which suits him very well. There is only one thing that makes Cheng Yang very headache, and that is Xiao Luo Hui of Ah Hui.

Before I met Hui Luo, I heard this name from An Hui many times. Cheng Yang once said in a joking tone, "You two have such a good relationship, why aren't you together?" An Hui said with a smile: "He is not so much my childhood as my male best friend. How can he make a pair with my best friend? "

Cheng Yang was speechless. In fact, Cheng Yang is not bored. His ex-girlfriend never cared that the other party had other friends of the opposite sex. But this time, the relationship between Hui and Hui Luo made Cheng Yang very uncomfortable.

Xu Anhua introduced Cheng Yang and Hui Luo, and saw Xu Anhua and Hui Luo whispering and even touching each other while eating, while Luo Hui kept talking about Xu Anhua's childhood, which made Xu Anhua laugh. Cheng Yang felt more like a light bulb.

Later, Cheng Yang also warned Hui not to get too close to Hui Luo, which made Hui very angry. She said that she only had a few friends, and Cheng Yang was speechless because you were so overbearing.

The relationship between the other two people is still very good, and soon they will talk about marriage.

On the eve of the wedding, according to the custom of Anhui family, we should prepare our own dresses and wedding dresses at night to avoid being too hasty in preparation the next morning and basically staying up all night.

In the evening, friends and relatives also came to visit the bride-to-be. People kept coming, and Hui Luo stayed there until after midnight. After seeing all his friends off, Hui Luo had to go back to rest first, and also let Hui rest. It's dawn. There's a lot to do.

However, Anhui and Hui Luo are in a very good mood. Anhui personally sent Hui Luo back, but she never came back. At five or six o'clock in the morning, there was still no news, and her family was very worried. But Hui Luo basically knows where she is. She must be with Hui Luo. I don't know where Hui Luo took her, and her face became more and more gloomy.

When it was time to get married, Hui didn't show up. Cheng Yang made a decision to inform everyone to cancel the wedding. Before the people around her could react from the panic, Hui hurried here. It turned out that she and Hui Luo had been drinking all night, so she was late.

An Hui was full of apologies and tied the knot. Although her makeup and lipstick are a little flowery, she is still ruddy. However, as soon as I heard that Cheng Yang had called off the wedding, I immediately got scared. I quickly pulled Cheng Yang to explain, "I know I was wrong, but I won't cancel the wedding. I'm with Hui Luo, you know, Hui Luo, a boyfriend and girlfriend. "

Cheng Yang shook off Anhui's hand and said coldly, "I know it's Hui Luo. I am not deaf. Now you can be with him forever. We are finished. "

After that, I no longer care about Anhui. And this farce wedding finally failed because of Cheng Yang's insistence, and the two divorced.

Many people say that Cheng Yang is too sensitive and makes a mountain out of a molehill. Although Anhui was wrong, it was right to cancel the wedding on the spot. This is rude and childish.

But I disagree with this statement. To tell the truth, I can't imagine who said Cheng Yang was wrong. The most important thing for men to do is to know what to do and what not to do. As a man's wife, she doesn't know how to keep a sense of distance from other members of the opposite sex. She even had a drink with him all night before the wedding, leaving her husband alone. Don't say that this woman has no brains, only that she is too self-respecting and doesn't know how to respect her husband.

After Anhui was late, she kept saying that she was with Hui Luo. From these words, we can know that Anhui is really a woman who doesn't know whether to say silly or naive. It has nothing to do with who she is with, but her husband can't stand his wife drinking with other men all night, and it's on the eve of his wedding.

If the husband can stand this, I can only say that such a man doesn't really love his wife.

As for Hui Luo, Anhui's best friend, I think he is a selfish little man. He has no discretion in doing things like Anhui. This evening, whether he did anything out of line or not, he was acting as a third party to destroy other people's feelings.

An Hui eventually became a woman who was abandoned before the wedding. Most of her self-harm doesn't even deserve sympathy.

As a wife, you must understand that your husband is the one who will accompany you all your life. Friends of the opposite sex may bring you temporary happiness, but it is not temporary. You must live a down-to-earth life and learn to change. For the sake of marriage and husband, keep a sense of distance from other opposite sex, so as not to fall into the quagmire of self-immolation like An Hui.

As the saying goes, the road is your choice, and you have to walk on your knees. Everyone is responsible for their own choices. There is no regret medicine in this world. I don't know what Anhui will do, but she not only hurt herself, but also hurt Cheng Yang.

It is true that everyone will have several friends of the opposite sex, but good friends of the opposite sex should also make a difference, and there is still time. Furthermore, put yourself in your lover's shoes. Selfishness and disrespect are taboos in marriage. If you ignore it, don't blame others for being rude.