Visit the church or offer tea first.
When you get married, do you worship the church or offer tea first? Generally speaking, people bow to the bride first, because after the newlyweds bow to the bride, they think that the relationship between husband and wife in marriage customs and etiquette has been reached, and then it is a more correct order to offer tea.
Tea worship process
1. The groom brought the bride to her father and mother and said, "Dad, Mom, my son married his daughter-in-law" and so on. Then he poured tea, presented it to his parents first, bowed and said, "Dad (mom) drinks tea, and then the bride pours tea as usual, puts her hands in front of her in-laws and offers tea, just like her husband."
My in-laws promised to give the teacup to my daughter-in-law after drinking tea. After the daughter-in-law put the teacup away, she turned to face her in-laws. In-laws gave the prepared red envelopes to her son and daughter-in-law. After receiving the red envelopes from their parents, they said: Thank you, Dad (Mom). Give the red envelope to the bridesmaids around you, and the daughter-in-law can hold her mother-in-law.
The daughter-in-law will take her son-in-law to see her father-in-law and mother. The etiquette is the same. If you don't change your mouth at the wedding and change your mouth when you pick up your relatives, the order will be reversed. First, the woman will change her mouth, and then send her to the man to change her mouth.
Matters needing attention in wedding tea service
1. When offering tea, don't rush it. You must be slow and steady. The action must not be too rough or too big, so as not to spill the tea. It's impolite. Be sure to hold it in your hand and give it to your parents. You can't hold it too high for your parents to reach. You must kneel down and take it to your parents and wait for them to come and get it.
2. After drinking tea, parents will return the teacup to their children. At this time, they must also present the results with their hands. Parents will also give red envelopes. As a newcomer, you must take it with both hands and express your gratitude. The action needs to be slow, and you must not rush to let your parents finish it quickly.
3. When serving tea, don't pour the tea too full, which is easy to spill. When offering tea, couples should not touch the cup mouth with their hands. It's impolite to touch the cup with your hands while holding a saucer for tea, and don't use overheated boiling water, which will make your parents unable to drink it.
4. When offering tea, there will be some red dates and lotus seeds next to it. Remember not to fall to the ground. This is a beautiful implication of having children early. Be careful when offering tea, the action will not fall down generally.