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Visiting relatives in rural areas is more and more like "acting". It's like going through the motions, not eating or staying. Why?
Because everyone is too busy, the tie brought by blood relationship is not enough for people to invest too much time and energy.

With the continuous development of the times, people's quality of life is also improving step by step. However, what they get is bound to be lost. With the development of life, relatives in rural areas have become increasingly alienated, and family ties seem to be confined to parents and siblings.

The increasing pressure of life makes everyone's life extremely busy. As a person who grew up in the countryside, I really feel that the family ties in life are getting more and more alienated, which I think has a lot to do with the increasing pressure of life.

In the past, most people in rural areas made a living by farming and doing odd jobs, so everyone had enough time to exchange feelings during the Spring Festival. But now in rural life, working is the mainstream lifestyle, which makes everyone's life extremely busy, even for the New Year, there is not much time.

I entered the factory as soon as I graduated, 365 days a year, and now I still have three shifts. In those years, I seldom visited my relatives because I didn't have enough time. Even if it is to visit relatives, it is more like completing a task, going to many homes a day, and the ceremony is just talk.

In the busy modern society, consanguinity has hardly become a strong bond between people. In the past, the life circle of rural people was actually very small. Besides one's own work and hometown people, kinship is a very important part of interpersonal relationship in life. But the modern society is completely different, and the previous kinship often has little intersection in life. Young people, in particular, are constantly marching towards big cities, staying away from their hometown all the year round, and their relationship with their relatives is of course becoming more and more alienated.

In this situation, consanguinity has hardly become a strong bond in young people's lives. It's just that parents are still here, and relatives can't be broken. After the last generation left this world, maybe we won't have the so-called relationship. We haven't known each other for a long time. Even if we meet in the street, we may not know each other.

In this environment, visiting relatives in rural areas is more and more like going through the motions, which is understandable. Everyone must be busy with his work. Visiting relatives is more like the trace of their parents, and young people only focus on participation.

Perhaps with the passage of time, blood relationship will become a memory sooner or later.