I think the ideal marriage should start with sweet love. Two people have been together, going through ups and downs, and finally decide to have a lover. In other words, sweet love helps two people form a partner. But it doesn't mean that sweet love will definitely bring both sides together in the end. I think most people like me, no matter what age, will fantasize about having a sweet love, but marriage is not necessarily!

Two lovers are going through a sweet love stage, so they may fantasize that they and their other half will get married one day. But I think both parties in marriage have more responsibilities than those in love. In love, it is enough for us to experience happiness with the other half. Although occasionally quarrel, but also be flirting. The two sides in a marriage relationship are different. They should not only experience sweetness together, but also experience bitterness together. Because sometimes marriage means that two people will be together for life.

In love, there are only you and me in the eyes of both parties, but in marriage, besides you and me, there must be family and responsibility to both parties. Marriage will eventually sublimate their love into love and affection. In love, I may be just your lover, but in marriage, I am your closest relative and have no blood relationship. People always complain that their other half is very different from that before marriage. That's exactly what I want to say. In love, the other person may be what you think, but when you get married, we are the truest ourselves.

I always believe that when you think you are going to marry your other half, have you made a promise that you will be responsible for them for life? Whether you love them more than yourself, or just want to find someone to live with, is actually unfair to your other half. Now that you have decided to get married, you should be prepared to be together for life. Don't get married until you find yourself blind.