First, it depends on the habits and convenience of each household, discuss marriage, choose the date of marriage and decide (big or small). As for others, buy a dowry, send a dowry, invite the whole person, set up a happy shed, paste happy words, send a sedan chair, get on and off the sedan chair, make trouble in the bridal chamber, sing happy songs, worship the ancestors, announce the good news (virgin) to eat wine and return to the door. Weddings are like that, depending on what each household does;
Second, the scope of marriage is arbitrary, depending on the situation of each family. Some families are willing to be foreigners. It's up to each family to deal with this namesake. Completely independent choice. Completely free to fall in love, not allowed to have the words of parents' life matchmakers;
Third, there are basically no cousins, and there are no mountain people in Changzhi County. No boy wants to have a good sleep with the groom in the new house the night before the wedding. There is basically no phenomenon of suitable households, but it does not exempt some rich people from looking down on the poor. Chastity archway is a rare term.